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Food for Living: Succeeding Through Relationship and Association

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By Henry Ukazu

Greetings Destiny Friends,

A man only learns in two ways, one by reading, and the other by association with smarter people – Will Rogers

Success and failure have many components and characteristics, and one of them is association. However, many people don’t understand the power of association. Association works with relations. When you work and hang out with the right set of people, your chance of succeeding in life will be greater.

Did you know that your mindset contributes to success? As a matter of fact, your mindset can be described as the foundation of success because the success and failure of anyone starts from the mind. If you have the right mindset, you will think of the right relationship and association to belong to. If you have the right mindset, you will be concerned about your environment which can also contribute to your success.

Your attitude will change for the better if you have a progressive mindset, but if you have myopic and fixed mindset, your thoughts and experience will be limited regardless of your experience in a particular environment.

When people talk of relationship and association, it relates to the fabric of our society which starts from the family. A solid family where love and kindness are shown to the children, spreads love and unity among the siblings which in turn affects the society. When hatred, malice, wickedness, ungratefulness, and unhealthy attitude is sowed in the minds of children, they go out to the society with a hostile mindset. That’s why we have funny people and leaders who act like people without conscience.

Most people don’t know how blessed they are to be raised by decent parents in addition to having great siblings, until they meet people who have been damaged by society.

When one nurtures the right relationship, they are bound to reap the benefits when the right opportunity presents itself. It’s sad to note that many people have placed pecuniary gains and materialistic things above access and knowledge.

When you invest time and resources into the right relationship, it will germinate like a seed that is planted on a fertile soil. These relationships will introduce you to the right associations which will in turn provide you with the information you will need to succeed.

The power of information cannot be overemphasized. Information will only come to you when you have the right relationship and association. Did you know that if you are not informed, you are ill-informed and once you are ill-informed, you can’t perform because information leads to reformation and transformation. In fact, information leads to formation. You are a product of what you have learned, if you don’t read, you won’t know.

According to Charlie “Tremendous” Jones, “You are the same person today and in five years except for two things: the people you meet and the books you read.”

On a personal note, I can attribute my success to the relationship and association I keep. Sometimes, people ask me how I do what I do and how I meet the people I meet. I simply tell them, I’m smart by association and I’m a voracious reader. I say this because I am very intentional in what I do and how I relate with people.

Still on association, when people join associations or live in a particular neighborhood, they do it for a reason. When people pay to attend certain events, schools or travel or even volunteer for certain people or associations, they are doing it for a reason. When people seek mentors, they are seeking for people they hold in high esteem either in their professional capacity or based on their principles or integrity. Even the book of life says Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. (“Proverbs 13:20).

One may be concerned; how does one build these powerful associations? It begins with being selective and intentional. The first question, one needs to ask oneself is what do I want from this person or association?  It’s important to align yourself with individuals who share your values and aspirations.

The next step is to embrace diversity. It’s imperative that you connect with people from various backgrounds, cultures, and perspectives to life. This will help to enrich your experience, worldview, in addition to making you more innovative and adaptive. We live in a global and social economy. Like I always say, why be local when you can be global?

Furthermore, according to an African proverb “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” You cannot do life alone. All you need is the right people and association. The right people will support your efforts and accelerate your success. The wrong people will retard your progress altogether. According to kola Adesina, CEO Sahara Group, what you need in life is the right people and not necessarily Presidents, Governors, celebrities or people with money.

In conclusion, do you want to succeed in life? Then be intentional with books, people and association.

Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator.  He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate and creative writer Design Your Destiny and Unleash Your Destiny.  He can be reached via info@gloemi.com
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Police Arrest Suspect Behind Attack on Obi’s Convoy in Calabar

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The Cross River State Police Command has arrested a 27-year-old man, identified as Victor Edet Yellow Duke, over the alleged attack on the convoy of the Nigeria Democratic Congress (NDC) presidential candidate, Peter Obi, in Calabar.

The incident occurred on Wednesday, November 4, 2026, around Watt Market Roundabout, along the Calabar Road axis of the capital capital, while Obi’s convoy was returning from the palace of the Obong of Calabar to Metropolitan Hotel, venue of the party’s presidential town hall meeting.

According to a statement issued by the Police Public Relations Officer, ASP Eitokpah Sunday Akata, the attack occurred at about 2:20pm when suspected hoodlums, reportedly armed with machetes and sticks, emerged from the Calabar Road and Clerks Alley axis and attacked vehicles in the convoy.

The statement disclosed that the attackers smashed the windshields of some vehicles, adding that the exact number of vehicles affected was yet to be established.

Following the intervention of security operatives, one of the suspected attackers, Victor Edet Yellow Duke, was arrested, while others reportedly fled the scene.

According to the police, “the suspect has subsequently been transferred to the State Police Headquarters by operatives of the Violent Crime Response Unit, VCRU, for discreet investigation and to prevent possible reprisals or further breakdown of law and order.”

The Command confirmed that “normalcy has since returned to the affected area.”

Meanwhile, the Commissioner of Police, Cross River State Command, CP Ajo Geoffrey Ordue, has ordered a thorough investigation into the incident, directing officers to identify and apprehend other individuals allegedly involved in the attack.

The police, however, cautioned against drawing conclusions from the arrest, emphasising that “the arrest does not establish the suspect’s guilt.”

It added that the suspect remains entitled to the presumption of innocence pending the conclusion of investigations and any subsequent judicial proceedings.

The Command also reassured residents, political stakeholders and visitors of adequate security across the state, stressing that “all political parties, candidates and their supporters would receive equal protection irrespective of their political affiliations.”

Obi’s media aide, Ester Umoh, had earlier raised the alarm on social media that the NDC flagbearer had been attacked.

 “Thugs are trying to attack our convoy,” she said while raising the alarm over the incident.

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Nigeria-EU Investment Partnership: Boost Africa Highlights Mouthwatering Opportunities for Entrepreneurs

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What happens after investment reaches an African business?

Beyond the financing figures and commitments, how does capital translate into business growth, innovation, jobs and economic opportunity?

These questions took centre stage as the European Investment Bank (EIB) showcased the achievements of Boost Africa at the Nigeria–EU Global Gateway Investment Partnership Lab, held on the sidelines of the 32nd Nigerian Economic Summit in Abuja.

The event, convened by Nigeria’s Federal Ministry of Budget and Economic Planning in collaboration with the EIB’s Boost Africa team, brought together government officials, European development institutions, investors and private-sector leaders to explore how strategic partnerships and innovative financing can accelerate Nigeria’s economic
development.

In his remarks, Senator Abubakar Atiku Bagudu, Nigeria’s Minister of Budget and Economic Planning, emphasised the importance of mobilising private investment to support Nigeria’s economic transformation.

H.E. Gautier Mignot, European Union Ambassador to Nigeria and ECOWAS, highlighted the importance of translating investment partnerships into concrete opportunities, including stronger support for Nigeria’s entrepreneurial ecosystem.

Bringing the Boost Africa story to life
A major highlight of the event was the session “Boost Africa: From Capital to Impact,” which brought together representatives of development finance institutions, venture capital funds and Nigerian businesses to examine what investment has made possible.

The session opened with a short video introducing Boost Africa and its contribution to supporting innovative African enterprises.

Moussa Nakoulima, EIB Regional Head for West and Central Africa, provided an
overview of the initiative, highlighting its achievements and the role of development finance in mobilising investment for African entrepreneurs.

Launched as a joint initiative of the EIB and the African Development Bank, with support from the European Union, Boost Africa combines investment through venture capital funds with technical assistance to strengthen Africa’s entrepreneurial ecosystem.

The initiative has attracted more than €100 million in EIB investment commitments to
venture capital funds, supporting enterprise development across sectors including
technology, financial services, agribusiness and renewable energy.

From investment funds to growing businesses

Moving from the institutional perspective to the investment ecosystem, Daisy Leich, Director of Strategy at TLcom, shared insights into the role of venture capital in supporting African businesses.

Her contribution highlighted why financing alone is not enough. For growing enterprises, access to strategic guidance, expertise and networks can be just as important as access to capital. The discussion then turned to two Nigerian businesses whose experiences illustrated the opportunities that investment can help unlock.

Michael Babalola, Director of Operations at Beacon Power Services, shared the
company’s experience of developing technology-driven solutions for the energy sector, demonstrating how innovation can help address operational challenges in electricity distribution.

Representing ChipMango, Hamilton discussed the company’s work in developing Nigeria’s semiconductor engineering capabilities and creating opportunities for local talent to participate in the global technology industry.

Together, these perspectives illustrated the journey from development finance to venture capital investment and, ultimately, to businesses delivering practical solutions.

They also reinforced an important distinction: Boost Africa supports enterprises through its investments in venture capital funds, helping create the conditions for innovative businesses
to access financing and grow.

Looking ahead: Building on Boost Africa’s experience

Beyond reflecting on achievements, the session also provided an opportunity to discuss the future of financing for African innovation.

Participants were introduced to Boost Ventures, a successor initiative intended to build on Boost Africa’s experience and expand financing opportunities for innovative African businesses.

Backed by a €129 million European Commission guarantee, the initiative represents a further commitment to strengthening Africa’s venture capital ecosystem and supporting the next generation of entrepreneurs.

For Nigeria, where innovative businesses continue to develop solutions across critical sectors, sustained access to investment, expertise and strategic partnerships will remain essential.

Investment as a catalyst for lasting impact

The Boost Africa session reinforced a central message of the Nigeria–EU investment
partnership: development finance can play a catalytic role in mobilising private investment and helping businesses realise their potential.

By bringing together the institutions providing finance, the funds investing in enterprises and the businesses translating investment into solutions, the discussion offered a practical picture of how development partnerships can contribute to economic growth. The story of Boost Africa is ultimately not only about how much capital has been invested, but about what that investment has made possible: stronger businesses, new capabilities, innovative solutions and opportunities for Africa’s future.

Learn more at
https://www.eib.org/en/products/mandates-partnerships/boost-africa/index

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INEC ICT Boss Discloses Source of AI Generated Photos on Voter Database

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The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has attributed the appearance of suspected artificial intelligence-generated photographs and other questionable entries in its preliminary voter register to irregularities allegedly introduced by some registration officers.

The commission’s Director of Information and Communication Technology, Dr. Lawrence Bayode, disclosed this during an interview on Arise Television on Friday.

Bayode explained that some registration officers across the country allegedly used their login credentials to introduce irregular records into the voter database.

He said INEC uncovered the questionable entries through its Automated Biometric Identification System (ABIS), which was deployed to examine the registration records.

“We have registration officers on the field. And these registration officers, they have login details to log into the system.

“So what we have found is that some of these registration officers, not all of them now, some of them across the states nationwide, they’ve done different things to bring these irregularities onto the register,” he said.

The ICT director explained that while some of the suspicious photographs were generated using AI, others were products of poor registration procedures.

“Some of these pictures are AI-generated. Some of them not AI-generated, but very bad registration. And this thing got into the register by the registration officers and because they have access to register people,” Bayode said.

“When the ABIS was run on the system, we saw these people. We know what they did. We know how they did it. But honestly, I don’t know why,” he added.

Bayode said INEC has begun cleaning up the voter register before making the preliminary version available to the public, noting that the exercise is being carried out within the statutory 90-day period.

His disclosure follows concerns raised over suspicious photographs and other discrepancies after the commission uploaded its preliminary register of voters to its website on October 26.

Screenshots circulated on social media had shown photographs suspected to be AI-generated attached to voter records in parts of Edo State.

Other complaints involved alleged duplicate entries and reports by some registered voters that their details were missing from the online register.

INEC had earlier explained that the online version was the same preliminary register displayed physically at Registration Areas across the country from October 9 to 15 for the Display, Claims and Objections exercise.

In a statement issued on October 27, the commission said it had identified and flagged some questionable records during the physical display and had commenced a review to correct the irregularities.

It also clarified that the published document was not the final certified register, adding that the online release did not capture all the data-cleanup activities still underway.

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