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Food for Living: There’s Always a Day of Reckoning
By Henry Ukazu
Dear Destiny Friends,
According to some schools of thought, there are only two things that are permanent in life; death and taxes. Regardless of how well one lives on planet earth, he must surely die, and as human beings we must always pay our “fair” share of taxes at the end of the year or tax season to enable the government function at optimal capacity.
One interesting fact about this salient point is that everyone is accountable for their actions and inactions, and that explains the principle of day of reckoning.
Though the day of reckoning means different things to different people, it generally refers to that time when past mistakes or misdeeds are brought to the fore, and punished or paid for; or the testing time when the degree of one’s success or failure will be revealed.
For a Christian, the day of reckoning is likely going to be the judgment day. For an entrepreneur, the day of reckoning is the moment of anticipated breakthrough; for a politician, the day of reckoning is the reward for loyalty, and for an employee, it can mean the pay day for a great work done.
One thing is however, certain: regardless of whatever one does, there’s always a day of reckoning. As a student if you don’t read, do your assignments and attend classes, the day of reckoning awaits you; as a parent, if you don’t train your child well, the day of reckoning awaits you; as a youth, if you do not plan your life very well, you will understand that failing to prepare is preparing to fail; and as an employee if you do nott do your job professionally, a day or reckoning will reveal unwanted consequences. The list is endless.
But there’s a day if reckoning that refers to that period when one’s work and performances are celebrated, and that forms the focus of today’s article. It is easier for one to get frustrated when the lines are not adding up. Life can be challenging when one is not getting the desired support, especially when running a business. One thing is however, certain, if one can remain focused and consistent in developing their craft, that day of reckoning will come.
I have personally experienced my own fair share of day of reckoning, I recently surfed the internet to see what’s publicly available about me, and I was surprised to see the fabulous information Ai has about me, especially as it relates rewards to my work. What struck me was the organizational and statistical record about my work. I began to wonder how and when all these happened?
The answer is not far-fetched; the work I have been doing over the years has been noticed. For instance, my company, my awards, my two books, my interview with New York Times and News12 took the spotlight. Imagine if I had not taken the time to do the work, I wouldn’t have received global recognition.
So today, I implore you to continue to develop yourself and take advantage of any opportunity to showcase your work because one may never know when judgment day or next opportunity may arise.
Day of reckoning can also refer to Karma, which pays everyone back in their own coin. Most people derive joy at inflicting pain to others, and think life will be fair to them. I’m a strong proponent of the golden rule which allows everyone to get a feel of the treatment they met out to others.
As a parent, entrepreneur, career professional, artisan and more, everyone will surely have an opportunity to thrive in one way or the other if only one will be patient to reap the fruits of their labour.
One mistake most people make when developing their craft is spending minimum time on productive work and spending much time on unproductive work. For instance, instead of spending a substantial amount of time to build a brand, a lesser mind will explore shortcuts to learn the trade without understanding the full strategy, rubrics and dynamics associated with the work.
Some might even work for a year or two and believe they have gotten what they need to stand on their own, instead of spending at least 10 years to build expertise in the industry which will make the person establish a household name that needs no introduction.
One of the best advice I received from one of my mentors was to spend at least 10 years in a particular industry to establish a track record of success before venturing into another business. The record will serve as a transfer of value and currency which can be used as a basis for negotiation for better opportunities, but the sad part is that most people are not patient enough to learn the ropes.
I have since come to realize that at the end of the day regardless of one’s industry, those who have developed expertise in their craft are always recognized. Examples of great names are athlete Usain Bolt from Jamaica, media icon, Dr. Dele Momodu from Nigeria, soccer star, Cristiano Ronaldo from Portugal and pop artist, David (Davido) Adeleke from Nigeria, just to mention a few.
Anyone can take this fact to the bank, and that is that the day of reckoning awaits everyone whether their work is good or bad. The question now becomes, what would you like to be reckoned with?
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny Design and Unleash Your Destiny . He can be reached via info@gloemi.com
By Henry Ukazu
Dear Destiny Friends,
Secrets are exclusive preserves of certain individuals or institutions. They are one’s advantage over others, in the sense of ‘there’s something I know, which no one else knows. No one can ever claim that they don’t have a secret, either in the good or bad light.
Secrets therefore, exist in the family circle, business terrain, academic environment, career/professional pursuit, health management, spiritual connectivity and even in everyday personal living. It is an undeniable fact that everyone has a secret that works for them.
Let’s take a minute to discuss some of the aforementioned secrets.
Family
Every family has a secret. It will be foolhardy for anyone to disclose family secrets. Most families die with their secrets. To understand how family secrets work, imagine the Coca-Cola company. The family is said to be the only one in the world that has the formula for the beverage; a trade secret that originated with its creator, John Pemberton.
It is said that not even all family members enter the room where Coca-Cola is mixed or manufactured for fear of the secret being divulged. Imagine where spouses have access to the room and the marriage goes south, there’s a tendency that a spiteful divorced partner might leak the secret and the rest as they say is history.
There are many secrets that bind many families which only the immediate family members know. In some cases, only the parents or grandparents know. They can decide to share the secret to either the first male child, first female child or even a member of the family that one considers rational. For instance, imagine where a family is faced with a peculiar life threatening illness which ordinarily might scare anyone who wants to get married into that family, it will be stupid for anyone to spit it out, that act alone can make the intending spouse to reconsider his/her plan to marry from the family.
Business
Every business has a trade secret. Trade secrets are what makes a business unique. Every business has a unique selling point. (USP), which is a distinct benefit that sets the business or product apart from its competitors. A shrewd businessman will never leak his secret to his employees or competitors. The best his employees will know are the values, the operational systems or structures of the business and how his mindset works. But what makes the business stand out is the mystery that one will need to unravel.
Academic
Every student has a distinct trait that makes him/her succeed academically. This unique trait makes the student exceptional. For any student to succeed in their academics, he must know himself and what works for him. While some might study at night, some might study during the day, others might just listen during the lecture and understand the key points.
It’s sad to see students, who haven’t discovered who they are and what works for them following students who have discovered who they are. For example, while some students have good listening and understanding ability, and can listen to lectures and read a little and pass their examinations, some other students will have to read the course material before the lecture, listen during the lecture, read after the lecture and read thoroughly for examination before they can get a decent grade.
In some cases, they might not get the desired grade. Some students will even party hard during the day and at night they study, while some will party at night and study during the day. So, you can see that while some students have discovered themselves and what works for them, some others follow them sheepishly. Moral: Know what works for you and do what works for you because according to Oscar Wilde, “be yourself because others are taken”.
Career/Profession
Every career professional has a secret that works for them. In the same way, every industry knows what makes it stands out. The secret of what makes someone in the entertainment industry successful is quite different from what makes someone in politics or law enforcement, energy, education, legal, or health sector different. They all have different strokes, and the ability of one to do the needful in addition to playing the associated game can be the game changer.
Health
Health is a personal thing. Nobody knows you more than you know yourself. To show you how secretive and important one’s health is, it’s been said that there are three kinds of life: Public life, private life and secret life.
Your public life is the life that is generally known by everyone. It is the character we exhibit in the public space. It can also be regarded as the image perception lifestyle; we don’t generally go around revealing our health status in the public domain except where necessary. The private lifestyle; this is the kind of life only our family and close friends know.
Again, we don’t disclose such pertinent information to them only where and when necessary, then we have the secret lifestyle which only us and our creator knows. In some cases, we go to the graveyard with this. Do you see why health is a personal issue which needs to be kept in a secret place?
Personal
As mentioned earlier, everyone is unique. One of the best things that can happen to anyone is knowing themselves, and knowing what makes them different. I strongly believe we all have seeds of greatness in us. What works for Mr. A might not work for Mr. B. Like I always say, you can copy my style, but you can’t be me because imitation is a limitation.
For instance, I have unique energy and inspiration when it comes to writing. I have developed a keen interest and passion for writing. If tomorrow I become very successful or attract a unique opportunity, and someone decides to try writing to attract similar opportunities, the person might fail because God is the one that decides what opportunities come to anyone nor matter how hard someone may work.
Spiritual
This is another interesting aspect of life. Life is indeed spiritual. There’s nothing that happens physically without taking place spiritually. Everyone has a covenant point that was assigned to them at birth. Once that covenant point is touched that fellow might lose their blessings, anointing or what makes them strong.
There have been many testimonies about this. For instance, in the Bible, Samson’s touching point was his hair. He knows his power lies in his hair, that’s why Delilah tried so many times to know the secret of his strength, but Samson refused to tell her. She tried to make him drunk, but Samson still has the power. Samson repeatedly lied to Delilah about the secret of his strength, first saying it was new bowstrings, then new ropes, and finally by weaving his hair into a loom. Each time, he easily broke free, but Delilah continued to pressure him.
Weary from her constant questioning, Samson finally confessed that his strength was tied to his hair, which had never been cut because he was a Nazirite from birth. Delilah then called for a man to shave Samson’s seven locks of hair while he slept in her lap. His secret was revealed. His hair was cut. He strength was gone.
Do you see that Samson’s secret place was his hair?
In conclusion, depending on what we are working on, we all have our secret strength and place. The onus is on us to cultivate and dwell on this secret place to avoid losing power and focus.
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny Design and Unleash Your Destiny . He can be reached via info@gloemi.com
Amid growing insecurity in different parts of the country, Niger State Governor, Umaru Bago, has urged residents to defend themselves against persistent bandit attacks.
He insisted that his administration would neither negotiate with nor pay ransom to criminals under any circumstances.
Bago made the declaration during a visit to the Rijau and Magama local government areas, where several communities were recently attacked by bandits operating from the Kontagora axis.
The governor said the State has reached a critical stage that demands collective action, warning that ransom payments would only embolden the criminals and turn kidnapping into a profitable venture.
“I will not negotiate with bandits. I will not pay ransom.
“The moment we start paying, they will open shop on our heads and continue kidnapping people,” he said.
“The situation has reached a state of war that requires collective resistance. We are surrounded by enemies, but we will not give up.
“The constitution gives us the right to defend our lives and property, and we will do just that,” the governor added.
Describing the recurring attacks and displacement of residents as “embarrassing and unacceptable,” Bago announced plans to recruit and train 10,000 personnel into the state’s joint task force to strengthen community security and restore peace.
In a statement issued by his Special Adviser on Print Media, Aisha Wakaso, the governor also announced a total ban on all mining activities across Zone C of the state.
The affected local government areas include Magama, Kontagora, Rijau, Wushishi, Mariga, Borgu, Mashegu, and Agwara.
Bago explained that illegal mining had become a major driver of insecurity in the zone, noting that many miners had unrestricted access to forest areas considered unsafe for residents.
“It is suspicious that miners can enter the forests freely, yet the bandits don’t touch them. I have ordered the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) to arrest anyone caught engaging in mining activities,” he said.
Governor Bago also reaffirmed his administration’s commitment to ending the cycle of violence and restoring lasting peace throughout the state.
The Nigeria Police have reportedly arrested human rights activist Omoyele Sowore.
Sowore was taken into custody at the Federal High Court in Abuja.
This was revealed in a post on X by human rights lawyer Inibehe Effiong, who accused the police and President Bola Tinubu’s administration of undermining Nigeria’s judicial system.
He wrote: “The arrest of Omoyele Sowore at the Federal High Court in Abuja moments ago is preposterous.
“The police and the Tinubu regime are making a mockery of our judicial system.He should be freed immediately. Stop the shenanigans.”
Sowore had earlier posted on Facebook that he was with Kanu Agabi, the lead lawyer for Nnamdi Kanu, at the Federal High Court.
According to him, Agabi disclosed that his team would be withdrawing from the case, leaving Kanu to continue his trial without representation.
