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Generating Confidence for all Round Possibilities

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By Tolulope A. Adegoke

CONFIDENCE is the light on the candles of our faith, while our works are the stands on which it stands; as Faith without work is dead, and work without confidence results in errors without end!” –  Tolulope A. Adegoke

 If you will see all round possibilities and be all that God has called you to be, then you must have CONFIDENCE! Genesis 1: 26 reveals that God’s intention for you always is to prosper. Confidence is the difference between the rich and the poor. Do not permit anything or anyone to limit you in any way for any reason!

You are here on Earth on a purpose for a purpose. Being born again is not a title, there is a teacher in you called the Holy Spirit. You are bigger on the inside and on the outside. Hebrews 10:35 says: “cast not away, therefore, your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.” You don’t know what God can do for you if you stepped out confidently. I am not here to take sides, but to take over!

You should understand that when you don’t know the value of a thing, it is easy to throw it away! Could it be that there are lots of things you had thrown away due to your ignorance?!

Don’t let the privilege God has given to you rob you of where you are going. Confidence is the difference between mediocrity and excellence. What you lack is not grace, not even resources but confidence! Judges 6:16 unveils that if you want to see Kingdom(all-round) Possibilities, you need ‘Godfidence’ to manifest God’s intentions (your calling) on Earth. Do not permit anything or anyone to limit you! Courage doesn’t necessarily mean lack of fear, but the ability to keep your head up and conquer! Don’t abandon what you have for what you don’t have!

God pumps confidence as revealed in Genesis 18. The devil uses your past against you. Let God become your confidence. You cannot imagine what can bow to you in the presence of confidence! Proverbs 3: 26 illuminates that “for the Lord shall be your confidence, and shall keep thy foot from being taken.” When you see God in the midst of your battles, then you can breakthrough!

The Identity State – Reinvent yourself, do not allow your background to put you on the ground! There is something you are that you have no idea about, yet! Embrace your vision! Receive the seeds, avoid vision contraceptives (things that can distract you off your vision)!

You must understand that boldness has magic, there is power in it! What you can dream or do…start it now! If you didn’t have fear, you won’t need courage! What is that move you desire or need to change your position?

For you to see possibilities, you need to conquer nations…though, you may encounter king size opposition which you must confront and conquer!

Procrastination is a strong nation to conquer (Joshua 18:3 KJV). Get to the driving seat of your life…no matter how filled a car seem to be, there is always a place for the driver. Position yourself to be empowered, don’t slack! (Proverbs 24:33-34).

If you allow the wrong light to distract you off the right light, you will not be rightly enlightened. It’s time to square up!

If you slept with a frog long enough, you will become a frog (forming cliques of frog owners). It doesn’t matter how long you have suffered, do things the right way. You aren’t making waves, because you are not making moves. Make the right moves first, then you will naturally make waves without stress. Do the first things first!

Things that makes us Procrastinate

i.                   Perfectionism: This is the strength that the enemy can use against you!

ii.                 People who wastes other your time, because they have nothing doing

iii.              Always waiting till the last minute before making moves. The truth is this, you will think better and get better results when you prepare early

iv.               Getting priority out of order! You must always learn to maximize your time.

v.                 Allow Divinity (Jesus Christ) to drive your course (Humanity)

vi.               Not knowing how to start!

You can’t continue to do things you have always been doing without getting desired results. You must learn to always rise with the sun! do something different…go after those that have done what you intend to do and learn how to improve on it.

Factors Required to Maintaining a Mentor

i.                   Go for mentorship not sponsorship. A mentor imparts you, not sponsor you. Learn! A good advice can turn your life around for the better, and a bad one can cost you your destiny!

ii.               Honour your mentor

iii.              Solve problems for them

iv.              Know that your mentors don’t have enough as you have, so avoid messing things up!

It is important to note that there is always a king over every kingdom. Do not do things out of place. Act as the moon, charge yourself from the sun. you cannot survive on your own! Don’t be disconnected from God, connect with Him through His principles (Covenant) and He would guide and guard your paths. Always discern (know) who is speaking into your being (life). Be intentional, and conscious about it! Life is a very sensitive issue. Avoid those that cheaply ‘talk down’ your destiny. The antidote is to listen to God. Psalm 23 reveals that God leads. So if you are not led, do not lead!

Fear is the reason people don’t give! When you are committed to a ‘just’ course, God adds and multiplies, thereby booting your confidence for more values to be created and harnessed for the good of mankind and to the glory of God Almighty.

How you respond depends on what you thought was talking to you! Parasites receives from people; they don’t contribute to giving in return. Don’t be one.

Thank you all for reading.

Watch out for the Book titled: “The Power of an Empowered Zero” (From Zero to HERO) by Tolulope A. Adegoke. Foreword by Dr Yomi Garnett (CEO/Chancellor, Royal Biographical Institute, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania U.S.A., U.K., Abuja, Nigeria.) Edited by Ola Aboderin.

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2027: North Will Take Stand in Next Six Months – Baba-Ahmed

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Dr. Hakeem Baba-Ahmed, a former Special Adviser on Political Matters to President Bola Tinubu, has revealed that the North will, in the next six months, take a stand on who to support for the presidency in 2027.

He boasted that no politician can win the presidency in 2027 without the support of the region.

In a video interview he granted in Hausa language, Baba-Ahmed, who appeared alongside a former Executive Secretary of the National Health Insurance Scheme, Usman Yusuf, lamented the state of the nation and urged northerners to resist divisive and deceptive politicians ahead of the next general elections.

He said: “In the next six months, the North will decide where it stands. If the rest of the country wants to join us, fine. If not, we will go our own way. One thing is clear: nobody can become president of Nigeria without northern support.

“We want a government that understands our problems and can address them. After Buhari’s eight years, we became wiser. Now, we are in another government, and we are still crying. Is crying all we know how to do?” Baba-Ahmed asked.

According to the former presidential aide, the North has suffered greatly during the Boko Haram insurgency, which affected all groups, Muslims, Christians, Fulani, Baju, and others, highlighting the need for unity.

“Before Buhari became president, Boko Haram was bombing mosques, churches, Abuja, and Lagos. That was a time Northerners had to unite. Today, no politician can just show up and expect Northerners to fall in line. Who are you?” he questioned.

He therefore warned against further marginalization of the North, noting that continued disregard for the region would have consequences.

“If they plan to rig the election, they should be careful. It won’t be good for Nigeria. The North is watching, elders, masses, and interest groups will soon say “enough is enough ‘. The injustice and sidelining must stop.

Baba-Ahmed urged the northern region to look beyond identity politics, stressing that competence and integrity should guide voter decisions.

“We are tired of being deceived into voting based on religion or ethnicity. That era is over. We just want a right leader, we just want someone who will solve our problems,” he said.

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Embrace Christ-like Virtues, Glo Urges Christians at Easter

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Telecommunications giant, Globacom, has charged Christians to embrace the virtues that Christ preached as the 2025 Easter celebrations hold this weekend.

While congratulating  Christians in Nigeria in a goodwill message released from its Lagos Head Office on Thursday, Globacom admonished  them to imbibe the noble qualities of Jesus Christ.

According to Glo, “Peace, love and sacrifice are the central message of Easter. Christ offered himself in atonement for the sins of the world and he lived a life which made Him an eternal symbol of peace and goodwill for mankind”

Globacom charged  all Nigerians to espouse the lessons of  selflessness, a necessary ingredient in the growth and development of every society and called  on all Nigerians to join hands to make Nigeria a better place for all.

The company praised their perseverance through the 40-day Lenten period  which comes before  Easter as it emphasized the  ideals of selflessness, love and peace among all as a way of demonstrating the exemplary life of Jesus Christ.

Easter comes yearly at the end of the Lenten season of fasting and prayer considered as a ritual of purification for the Christian faithful. It also precedes the crucifixion of the Lord Jesus Christ on Good Friday and His eventual resurrection on Easter Sunday.

The company assured its customers of unhindered voice, data and Short Messaging Service (SMS) during and after the Easter celebrations, while urging them to avail themselves of the various data and voice offerings on the network.

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Food for Living: You Are Unique

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Dear Destiny Friends,

Every human being loves to get approval, either for the great work they have done or the ones they are doing. They love to be appreciated and admired. They also love to be given attention when they have something valuable to say or do. In all of these, one thing is certain, there is something special about us, and this special thing makes one unique, and ultimately attracts people to us.

Let’s face it, nobody will admire you, appreciate you, approve you and give you attention if you don’t have anything to offer. The reason most people associate with someone is because they feel or know there’s something they can gain from the person. It’s hard for someone to relate closely with someone who they don’t see potential value in.

There is no doubt each and everyone of us is unique, yes, there’s something unique about you. You can sing, you can write, you can dance, you can lead, you can serve, you can cook, etc. One can even be a good actor, athlete, comedian, or preacher. The list is literally endless. Now, what’s unique about you?

When you discover what’s unique about you, please do all within your reach to nurture and develop it. One day, the right person, who truly appreciates and knows your value will celebrate you.

I have a friend who is exceptionally skilled in writing and developing creative contents. I call him a genius because he can literally write a book within a week. How he does it is what I don’t understand. I was surprised when he once told me he wrote a book and manuscript in one week. According to him, he has been developing the contents mentally, but hasn’t found time to put his thoughts together, and when he finally gets his thoughts together, he was able to write the book and manuscript. This is a typical way of knowing a unique being.

Many, however, do not know what’s unique about them. We focus our energy chasing what is not chasing us instead of focusing on developing what we already have. It’s sad to see young and old people living their lives in an unintentional manner with a belief that somehow lines, favour or opportunities will fall in place for them.

Sometimes, we rely on other people’s affirmation and opinion, and accept it as our fate. For instance, just because one is tall, he might be told he will be a great fit for basketball without considering if the athlete loves basketball; again, just because someone is very intelligent, his parents will encourage him to major in a particular discipline, which is perceived as lucrative without considering if the person likes it pr not.

I once experienced this fate when my late dad inspired me to study taxation law in New York Law School, a major I detest with passion. It was like a suicidal mission for me because I do know, it will take miracle to graduate from the program. How I was able to get a scholarship for my grades and graduate in record time is a story for another day. I’m not wired as a finance person, I will better serve humanity in the social and developmental space where my skills, talents, gift and passion will be better utilized. And ever since I joined the space, I have seen results.

There are many cases where many people lose their identities without knowing they are unique. We are all unique in our individual ways. Just like there are several gifts and talents, we have different skills. When you know what’s unique about you, you will stand out and the world will not only appreciate you, but will celebrate you.

When one discovers the power of their uniqueness, we will gather strength to unleash it to the world. Uniqueness works in several ways. For instance, the mere fact that ten people are genius, talented, skillful or valuable in a particular work, the person with the unique gift is the person who will not only stand out, but will be called upon to do the work.

Let me share more insight. If ten people sing a particular song with a great voice, the person who is called to be a singer will receive a unique appreciation because he/she is working on purpose. That is why it is easy to see a lot of people venturing into a particular form of business, but the favour of the business will not locate them because they are not uniquely destined to do business.

Few years ago, one of my mentors shared a deep insight with me. He said that, as a trained medical doctor, he once observed that despite the fact there are hundreds and thousands of medical doctors practicing their profession. One fateful day, he noticed a particular patient was not responding to treatment despite all the medication that had been given to him by a nurse, his health was deteriorating, then another nurse came and administered the same pill a nurse gave the patient, and the patient began to feel better. What does that tell you? The second nurse was probably working in her purpose which aligns with her profession, and as such the corresponding success. This goes to show that when one is unique, it has a way of robbing off on their work.

Furthermore, he stated that Mariah Carey, Michael Jackson, and Beyonce are some of the gifted singers and dancers the world has ever celebrated. He went on to say that we have hundreds and thousands of musicians, but only a few have got the spotlight.

What does that tell you? When you are unique, the world will celebrate you. I have understood that the fastest way to get recognition in life is to work in areas where one’s strength and unique gift will better serve the purpose. This is simply because the world does not celebrate one’s weakness, rather, the world celebrates one’s strength.

In recent times, I have seen myself as a counselor and human inspiration. My counseling skills have enabled me to influence people to live positive lives. Overtime, I have realized that when people share their burden with me, they feel relieved after speaking with me. What amazes me most is the fact that even my elders feel comfortable to relate with me on a cordial basis. Maybe, I have a unique gift for counseling and educating.

Today, I am going to charge you to focus your energy and time on whatever will bring you the highest satisfaction. Even if you are looking for a job, applying for school, or seeking any opportunity, your focus should be centered on what you have that the job, school or opportunity will amplify. When you do so, you will be in high demand.

In conclusion, please affirm to yourself today, I am a unique being with a unique personality, purpose and gift.

Say to yourself, ‘I am original’, and refuse to be fake.

Again confess that your originality, authenticity and uniqueness will attract favours, blessings, opportunities from leaders and queens to you, and you will be celebrated.

Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator.  He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny Design Your  and Unleash Your Destiny .  He can be reached via info@gloemi.com

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