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Food for Living: The Blessings of by Hope

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By Henry Ukazu

Dear Destiny Friends,

It is instructive to note that nobody has ever succeeded on their own without the support and blessings of others. This is because nobody succeeds in life without blessings.

Blessings come in different kinds, styles, and dimensions. Your parents can bless you; your mentors can bless you, and these mentor-blessings can operate in various forms. It can be political, business, professional or even academic. Your spiritual director can bless you; your creator can bless you; you can even bless yourself. Above all, apart from God, the highest and best blessings anyone can have is personal blessings, and this is the blessings one attract to himself based on the work the person has done.

Everyone needs blessings to succeed. Nobody succeeds on their own accord. That’s why it’s imperatively advisable for one to be as calm as a dove, and as wise as a serpent to decipher when their blessings are around. Your blessings can come from anyone and from unexpected sources.

Some people have however, missed it due to pride, ego, what people will say, ignorance or lack of understanding of the principle of life. Blessings bring hope and succor because when one understands he or she is blessed or has been blessed, there’s this level of joy, happiness, satisfaction, and fulfilment one will have because of the blessings of hope that have been accrued and waiting to manifest.

What is hope? Hope is a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen. When you have hope, you will be relatively at ease. According to a Nigerian adage, a hunger that has hope can never kill anyone. This is because when you know you have food at home, you won’t cry too much. It’s just like when you are poor and you don’t have anyone you can borrow from, the feeling can be disastrous.

Hope is a success ingredient each one of us needs to prosper.  Whenever you have hope, fear, despair, tension, and desperate feelings will appear alien to you. One may be wondering, what are the blessings of hope? The blessing of hope brings patience, love, understanding, wisdom, and maturity. How do the blessings of hope work?

As a student, if you are diligent with your studies, you’ll reap the fruits of your labor. As an entrepreneur, if you are diligent in your business and do what you are supposed to do, you’ll reap the fruit of your labor. As a parent, if you train your children well, you’ll reap the fruit of your labor. The question we need to ask ourselves is, are we doing what we are supposed to do to receive the blessings of hope? I say this because you can’t build something on nothing. You can’t wish for an opportunity without reaching out.

It’s instructive to note that life operates with principles. In the same manner, the blessings of hope work with principles. When you do the needful, the principles of life work for you. To show how this principle works. Can you receive it with a clenched hand? The giver’s hand is always on top. Can you sow rice and reap beans?  The more strategic risk you take, the more you open yourself to opportunities. The list can go on and on.

As human beings, it’s normal for one to be desperate when one is searching for a job, life partner, money, opportunities etc. This feeling can make you do unholy things or exhibit characters unbecoming of a rational being. But when you know who you are, the understanding will be different.

Whenever you are desperate for anything, you will settle for less than you deserve. Desperate attitudes can detach you from opportunities because the universe doesn’t respond to rush, rather, it responds to calmness. That’s why it’s not advisable to show how desperate you are, especially when you need something.

When people see how desperate you are, they can use it as bait against you. This is because you will get what you desire and deserve when you have earned the capacity to receive it. Therefore, before you can understand how hope works, you must practice self-discovery. So, whenever you need anything, it’s imperatively important you plan for the best and expect the worst.

Even though some schools of thought believe that it’s always good to think positive, and as such they don’t think negative, yes, I concur to that line of thought, however, I also believe, it’s always good to plan for the best and expect the worst to the extent your plan doesn’t work. This, to me, is a healthy way of living.

Several factors can lead to hopelessness. Whenever you are not prepared, you will have little hope for opportunities, when you are properly trained, educated, informed etc., you will have little hope. But if the reverse is the case, you will get the blessings of hope.

As Christians, many people don’t experience God until they go through the experience of despondency, despair, and abject emptiness. They only rush to God and their creator when they need help or opportunities. The same feeling is applicable to students, mentees, entrepreneurs etc.  These latter set of individuals don’t take time to understand the basics of life and the principles of life.

In conclusion, to receive the blessings of hope, you need to practice detachment, only then will you see how the universe will resonate towards you.

Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator.  He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate and creative writer Design Your Destiny and Unleash Your Destiny.  He can be reached via info@gloemi.com

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Hike in WAEC, NECO Fees Cruel, Dangerous to Education, Atiku Tells Tinubu

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Former Vice President Atiku Abubakar has condemned the Federal Government’s continued escalation of the cost of public education, describing the recent increase in fees for Federal Unity Colleges and the reported approval of a uniform ₦50,000 examination fee for West African Examinations Council WAEC and National Examinations Council NECO candidates from 2027 as cruel.

Noting that the policy is economically insensitive and fundamentally incompatible with government’s constitutional responsibility to make education accessible to every Nigerian child, the Presidential Candidate of the African Democratic Congress ADC said it is unconscionable that at a time when Nigerian families are battling record inflation, soaring food prices, rising transportation costs, crippling electricity tariffs, stagnant incomes and widespread unemployment, the President Bola Tinubu-administration has chosen to make education even more expensive.

In a statement issued by his Senior Special Assistant on Public Communication, Phrank Shaibu, on Sunday, Atiku noted that education remains the greatest instrument of social mobility and the surest pathway out of poverty for millions of children from humble backgrounds, adding that every additional financial burden imposed on parents translates into another child being denied the opportunity to learn, dream and contribute meaningfully to society.

“Nigeria already bears the painful distinction of having one of the largest populations of out-of-school children in the world. Depending on the methodology and age group measured, between 10.5 million and about 15 million Nigerian children and young people are already outside the classroom. Any government confronted with such a national emergency should be investing aggressively to bring these children back into school. Instead, this administration is choosing policies that will inevitably swell those numbers,” he said.

He warned that increasing fees in Federal Unity Colleges while imposing significantly higher costs on WAEC and NECO examinations would disproportionately affect children from poor and middle-income families, whose parents are already making impossible choices between food, healthcare, transportation, and education.

“The same administration whose policies are progressively narrowing access to public tertiary education continues to project the Nigerian Education Loan Fund (NELFUND) as one of its flagship achievements. Yet a university loan offers little comfort to a child who has already been priced out of secondary education or cannot afford the qualifying examination required for admission. A government cannot credibly claim to be expanding access to higher education while simultaneously erecting financial barriers that prevent millions of young Nigerians from ever reaching the university gates.

“Genuine educational reform begins by making education affordable from the primary and secondary levels, expanding the carrying capacity of our tertiary institutions, and ensuring that poverty never becomes the reason a child is denied the opportunity to learn. A government that truly believes in education invests in classrooms before it invests in loans.

“No nation has ever taxed its way into educational excellence. Countries that aspire to economic greatness invest more—not less—in education during difficult times because they understand that human capital is the engine of sustainable development. Nigeria cannot build a globally competitive economy while systematically pricing millions of its children out of classrooms”, he added.

Atiku therefore called on President Tinubu to immediately reverse the increase in Unity School fees and the proposed ₦50,000 WAEC and NECO examination fee, and convene an urgent stakeholders’ dialogue on sustainable financing for public education.

“By the grace of Almighty God, I remain confident that Nigerians will reject policies that punish their children and make education the exclusive preserve of those who can afford it. The African Democratic Congress is committed to restoring education as a public good, not a privilege.

“An ADC-led government will not permit this unjust and punitive increase in examination fees. Instead, we shall reverse policies that place education beyond the reach of ordinary families, expand access to quality education at every level, increase the carrying capacity of our tertiary institutions, and ensure that every Nigerian child, regardless of background, has a fair opportunity to learn, excel and fulfil his or her God-given potential,” he added.

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Food for Living: Make Efficiency, Effectiveness Your Watchword

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By Henry Ukazu

Dear Destiny Friends,

To be successful, everyone needs to be effective and efficient in all they do. Success does not come from nicety, speech articulation or fine diction, spotless dressing, connections, good proposal or even from having a good product. Though all these factors might play a role, a business man must not only be efficient in their business, they must also be effective.

These words, effective and efficient no doubt, are so closely related, however there’s a thin line of difference between the two. If you stay with me for awhile, you’ll understand.

One might be wondering what the difference between being effective and being efficient is. According to Dr. Yomi Garnett, a prolific and exceptional ghost writer, efficiency is the ability to do something well without wasting energy or effort, whilst to be effective is simply to do something well. Let’s talk a minute to explain how this works. One can be efficient and not effective, and one can be effective and not efficient. But a truly great mind is both effective and efficient. When one is efficient, it means that he can do the work within the shortest possible time. This may be because he has done it over and over again, and have mastered its nitty-gritty.

There’s a saying, if someone can’t explain something to a six-year-old child, that person doesn’t understand the subject very well. I agree with this saying because when someone understands something, he/she won’t go through stress explaining it, and will spend minimum time doing it. Whilst for someone who is effective, he knows the issue or has a subject matter expert on the business very well. He can literally do it when he wakes up from sleep without rehearsing.  So, in summary, an effective person saves time, while an efficient person explains better.

As progressive beings, we must be proactive with not only our life, but also our business, career, and whatever we find our hand worthy of doing. By doing so, people will appreciate us and support us. In business, one of the best forms of advertising is referral. When one’s work is exceptionally good, he doesn’t need too much advertising; his work will speak for itself. For instance, anyone who may have used the product might say ‘I have used this product or service, and I can guarantee its effectiveness’. Another person might say ‘the staff are very efficient, professional, and great at customer service’.

All these are great reviews. Trust me, one doesn’t need too many reviews to believe in the authenticity of what people are saying. They can sense a genuine review devoid of sentiments and vested interest. So, imagine a case where there’s no review, one might have a challenge in believing the durability and effectiveness of the product/service.

As a business owner, one must be intentional with respect to how he treats his employers and customers. What most uninformed business owners don’t know is that when you take care of your staff, they will in turn take care of your business. When the staff are happy, they’ll treat the customers well, and when the customers are happy, they’ll in turn tell the world. Do you see how effectiveness and efficiency work in a company?

In a similar way, if one is consistent in publishing articles every week like I do, opportunities are bound to arise soon when there’s alignment. As a business owner, I can authoritatively tell you being good at what you say you do is a currency. Nobody likes shady or dirty work. I can also tell you people are ready to pay for premium services provided you can deliver.

Let me share a personal experience with you; two months ago, I visited my home country – Nigeria, for a business opportunity. During my meeting with some established institutions, I had to submit proposals to them. But because I wasn’t proficient in writing proposals, I had to hire a consultant to do the job for me. Not only did I hire a consultant, I also flew him for business meetings because I trusted his judgment, and guess work, it paid off.

Imagine, if I had to do it myself, I doubt if the work would have been given the kind of positive attention it attracted. Why am I sharing this information? When one is good at what they do, it won’t take long for them to be seen when the right opportunity comes.

Being efficient and effective does not only apply to our professional lives, it’s also applicable in our personal lives. In the world we currently live in, things are governed by perception. When people see how effective and efficient you are, they will be inclined to associate with you, but when you appear like an unserious person, they will find it hard to recommend or refer you for business opportunities.

So, today, take stock and ask yourself if are you an effective and efficient person; if your company is effective and efficient. If your answer is no; ask yourself what you can do to make you and your company effective. The answer will set you on the right path to success.

Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny Design and Unleash Your Destiny . He can be reached via info@gloemi.com

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Security Outfit Captures Wanted Notorious Bandit Usman in Delta Forest

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The Delta State security outfit – SafeCity Security Service – in collaboration with operatives of the State police command, have arrested a wanted notorious bandit, Abubakar Usman.

His arrest followed the kidnapping of one Mrs. Blessing Chiedu, a native of Umunede Kingdom, who was abducted on July 2, 2026, along the Ani-Ifekide Farm Road, Ubulu-Uku. The kidnappers had demanded a ransom of N100 million from her family.

Spokesperson for the SafeCity Security Service, Harrison Gwamnishu, disclosed this in a post on X on Wednesday

According to Gwamnishu, upon receiving the information, he escalated the matter, and the Delta State Police Command’s Anti-Kidnapping Squad, Asaba, led by CSP Osakpolor, swung into action.

He said using their Hydra Tech Surveillance System, a coordinated rescue operation was launched, Mrs. Blessing Chiedu, a native of Umunede, was successfully rescued alive and unharmed along the Ubulu-Unor/Ashama Road.

After her rescue, he said the team immediately launched a manhunt for the fleeing kidnappers until the early hours of Wednesday when their surveillance system located the gang to their hideout in the Ogwashi-Uku/Adonta Forest of the state.

“A gun battle ensued, during which our combined team overpowered the criminals. One of the most wanted suspects, Abubakar Usman, was successfully captured, while other members of the gang escaped into the forest with their firearms.

“Investigations reveal that Abubakar Usman and his gang have been responsible for several kidnapping operations across Igbodo, Umunede, and surrounding communities, where they have extorted millions of naira in ransom from innocent families,” he said.

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