By Henry Ukazu
Dear Destiny Friends,
Today is one of those days children of the next generation will remember because a great man was born on October 25, 1964. Today, I choose to celebrate a great man, grandfather, father, uncle, friend, and mentor who has been an inspiration and blessing to my life.
I would like to begin by saying a belated happy birthday to Dr. Joe Abah, though I wished him happy birthday on X on his birthday. To me, this is my little sacrifice to show him how I revere him.
During my formative years, I would have said “happy belated birthday”; that’s simply because I haven’t met Dr. Joe, the technical teacher. That word “Happy Belated birthday” is grammatically wrong.
As an intentional man, let me say this: I have many mentors, and each of them plays a unique role in my life. One of the endearing unique qualities of Dr. Joe is his unique selflessness.
A sage once said, ” The joy of life is not how happy one can be but how happy one can be because of you. Dr. Joe, please bear with me; I will do my best to make this article a little bit personal. One might be wondering why I am writing about Dr. Joe like I have known him for ages; well, the answer is not far-fetched: life is not about quantity, but quality. I don’t have to know someone for a decade or more to put my thoughts together about them. One encounter can change a lot, and that’s exactly what Dr. Joe has done.
A little background information about how I randomly got to know Dr. Joe Abah. I met with Dr. Joe on X (formerly Twitter), and we connected on a social media platform, and I was attracted to his posts. His posts usually come across as intellectually stimulating, nourishing, and entertaining. On X, he is known as Ezemmuo (King of the Spirits). Some people call him the oracle and mouthpiece of the gods because of his uncanny and clairvoyant way of predicting the future, and most of the time, his predictions are 90% true.
My friendship and relationship began to grow when in April 2021 requesting his followers to give him a reason why they would like to partake in a Leadership training to celebrate his friend, Benjamin Akande. When I saw this tweet, I reluctantly applied and forgot about it. I was surprised that after about a week or two weeks, I was selected. Not only did he select me, but he also followed me on X. That, to me, was the beginning of our friendship.
I was able to nurture this friendship, and today, we have grown to the extent that he has invited me for lunch. Our bond strengthened when I reached out to him to write the foreword to my foreword for my third book and he was gracious to not only write the foreword but endorse the manuscript as “excellently written” after he must have read the manuscript.
Dr. Joe has many endearing qualities that attracted me to him, but none stood out for me like his humility, tolerance, and wisdom. Here is a man who has achieved success by any standard one can measure, depending on the rubric one chooses to measure success.
As a matter of fact, it was his humility that made me reach out to him to write the foreword to my third book, “The Six Pillars of Success. Before I reached out to him, I took my time to read every available piece of information I could find about him online, especially since I’m writing a book that is personal to me because I figured out I must have a name that resonates with the six pillars of success: (Purpose and personal Development, Career and vocational excellence, financial independence and freedom, Health and wellbeing, Healthy family and social relationships, and Spirituality and Inner Grounding).
If you know Dr. Joe, you’ll agree with me that he matches all these pillars. It’s instructive to note that before I published the book, some of my friends advised me to use some of the big names I know, and I asked them, ” What’s the definition of a big name? It was at that moment I understood the mindset and maturity of some people. How do you rate a human being just because he has “questionable money” or has attained a political position through fraudulent or illegal means? I have always believed that if the only thing one has is money, that person is poor.
As a very intentional person, I’m very particular with the people I associate and relate closely with; I always asked myself what kind of life would I want to live, what kind of life do I want my children and humanity to remember me for? These and many more are what led me to revere Dr. Joe as a revered mentor.
Permit me to share some of the distinguishing traits of Dr. Joe. He’s an academic scholar. He has occasionally used this knowledge, wisdom and understanding to educate everyone on his platform, especially men, this singular act made me coin a nickname for his “KING OF THE BOYS” due to his uncanny way of speaking. He has also continually stated that he doesn’t advise women on X, and he doesn’t like politics nor engage in it. No wonder he has been taunted as Ezemmuo
Dr. Joe is blessed with a rational temperament. Despite the detractors and sophisticated level of jealousy on X, he has managed to control his emotions in a country where many people would have lost it. The level of criticism I see against him online makes me ask: what sin has Dr. Joe committed? There is nothing I found except that he has truly discovered himself, developed himself, and evolved in such a way his detractors couldn’t imagine.
Dr. Joe is a fitness enthusiast; remember I said earlier, Dr. Joe perfectly fits into an ideal man whose personality radiates more with books. Occasionally, Dr. Joe organizes Fit September on X to keep fit. That exercise has literally helped many people. On a personal note, I have grown six-pack abs, broad shoulders, and big arms all because of my intentional exercise. As a matter of fact, I have not missed a single day of exercise. Here are two excerpts from Dr. Joe in my box: “According to Dr. Joe Abaha, a governance expert, “I try to do 3 exercises daily: 1. Exercise my body for at least 30 minutes every day. 2. Exercise my brain by reading at least a page of non-fiction every day. 3. Exercise my spirit by praying every day”.
Finally, not least, Dr. Joe is an extremely humble man. His simplicity is so endearing and charming to the heart. It was through Dr. Joe that I learnt that the higher you go, the humbler one should become. Despite the height he has attained in life, he still condescends to the level of a teenager just to communicate the desired message.
I can go on, but as the sage will say, a word is enough for the wise.
Sir, as you celebrate your new age, I pray that whatever has not worked in your life will manifest and be accomplished this year. Amen.
Remain blessed for being a blessing.