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Redefining Who You Are: Who Are You?

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By Tolulope A. Adegoke, Ph.D.

“Who you are is related to where you came from. Many look, only a few see!” –  Dr. Myles Munroe

You need to remember that sculptors look at a work in a very interesting way. I am also an artist of sorts, so I have a bit of an understanding of how artists work. One thing I have learned is that you never argue with an artist until he is finished.

Don’t discuss anything with a painter or a sculptor until his work is completed. An artist can be very rude if you disturb him before he has accomplished what he intends to do, because he sees differently than those who are not artists. An artist can walk by the stone in your front yard and see a figure in it. He may stop by your house and beg you for a stone you have walked past many times without noticing. You may even have been planning to get rid of it because it’s nuisance. But the artist walks into your yard and sees something beautiful in that stone beyond what you can imagine.

Months later, when the artist invites you to his workshop he asks, “Do you see that? Do you know where that came from?” “Italy, England or France?” you asked. “No” says the artist. “it came from your yard.” “That’s from the stone I collected from your yard.” “Do you mean…?” “Yes.” One thousand Pounds, please.” You were sitting on £1,000. But you couldn’t see the potentials in the dirty rock. You never saw a “hero” in a “zero”. Therefore, the stone that was rejected by you has ended up becoming the chief-corner-stone.

YOU ARE NOT TRASH!

Many people are being passed by, under-rated, overlooked or ignored because others don’t see what is in them. But God has revealed to me what’s in me, and I strongly believe that it is in you too. I am charged to stop and inform you: “can you really tell what’s in you?” Do you know what carry is potential? Do you know that you are not just someone born in a slum? There’s a wealth of potential in you. There is a king in your kid. There is a hero in your zero. There’s a wealth of potential in you. There is a strength in your weakness.

Sculptors sees so differently. They use “insight” to create a “foresight”. A worthy exemplar in this context is Michelangelo. They say he used to walk around a block of marble for days – just walking around it, talking to himself. First, he would see things in the rock; then he would go and take them out by creating it from those pieces.

Insight like that of a sculptor is also seen in the Holy Bible. When the world dumps, rejects you and calls you trash, and you land on the dunghill (where the garbage heap of the world is found), God walks along and picks you up. He looks deep within you and see a person of great worth, whom He would use to glorify Himself by impacting the world around him or her.

Don’t ever permit anybody to throw you away nor call you trash. When God looks at you, He sees thing that everyone else ignores. God uses the foolish things of this world to teach the wise lessons. You are worthy so much that Jesus went to cavalry to salvage and reclaim you. The Spirit of God connected to your spirit is the only true judge of your worth. Don’t accept the opinion of others because they are blind enough such that they do see what God sees.

When God looks at you, He sees things that everyone else ignore. GOD LOOKED AND SAW… God looked at “dust” and saw Adam. God looked at Adam and saw a world. He looked at Abraham and saw many nations. In Moses the murderer, God saw a deliverer. Can you just imagine looking at a stammering young man and seeing one of the greatest leader in history? God looked at David, the Shepherd boy and saw a king. When the Israelites wanted a king, God had to send Samuel to the home of Jesse. When Jesse heard why Samuel was there, he dressed up all his sons – the handsome one, the tall one, the curly-haired one, the strong one, the muscular one. All the sons of Jesse twirled out before Samuel, from the greatest to the least. With his vase of anointing oil, Samuel watched Jesse’s show as he presented his sons, even as he read out their profiles one after the other. After the very fine speech, Samuel said, “No”. The next son came out dressed like Paulson Pat and God said, “NO”. A third son gave a fine speech about philosophy, and God said “No”. Finally, after Jesse had paraded all of his sons before him, Samuel said, “I am sorry. None of these is God’s choice for king.” Do you have any other sons, may be somewhere else? Then Jesse replied, “Yes…well no. I just remembered. I do have a little boy, my youngest son. He’s just a little runt who’s out taking care of the sheep. He’s not dressed up like my other sons, nor have his hands manicured and his body scented with perfumes from the East. This guy is really smelly, because he’s been out with the sheep for quite some time.” “Bring him,” Samuel replied. “Let me look at him”. So, Jesse sent for his youngest son. When Samuel saw Jesse’s youngest son walk into the house, a little boy, he began to unscrew the lid of his vase. “I think I found the guy I’m looking for,” Samuel said. (Please note that God chose the son who was working. He was busy. God chooses busy people.) Most of us are like Jesse. We look, but we don’t see. Were you the “black sheep” in your family? (you know God likes sheep). Has your family told you that you are a nobody? Have you been written off and put out and told so many times that you will amount to nothing that you have begun to believe it? Do you really feel like the black sheep?

You are probably the one God is waiting for in the house. God sees things deep within you that others can’t see. They look at you and see nobody; God looks at you and sees a worthwhile somebody. You may spend your whole life competing with others – trying to prove that you are somebody. You may spend your whole life competing with others – trying to prove that you are somebody – and you still feel like nobody. Be free from that today! Emancipate yourself from such mental slavery! You don’t have to live with that any longer. You don’t have to try to be somebody, because you are somebody with glorious worth. You need to remember that you came out of God. You were created in His Image and Likeness. So, it is an error on your part, to look down on who you are. When you look down on WHO you are, you are indirectly or unconsciously looking down on WHOM YOU ARE! Let your focus be on your CREATOR, not those that look down on you. Look up to the INVENTOR, not His INVENTIONS!

YOU CARRY GOD’S IMAGE AND LIKENESS

In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. First, He decided what He wanted to make something out of and then spoke to that source. When God wanted plants He spoke to the dirt. When God wanted fishes, He spoke to the waters. When God wanted animals, He spoke to the ground. Whatever God spoke to became the source from which the created thing came. Plants thus came from the dirt, fish from water and animals from the ground. Furthermore, plants return to the dirt, fish return to the sea and animals return to the ground when they die.

All things have the same components and essence as their source. What God created is, in essence, like the substance from which it came. Not only are all things composed of that from which they came, they must also remain attached to their source in order to live. All things must be maintained and sustained by where they came from. The minute a plant decides it doesn’t like the earth anymore, it dies. The minute the fish decide they are tired of water, they die. The minute animals decide, “we don’t want to eat dirt anymore,” they begin to die. Thus, whatever God created came from that to which he spoke. All things were created by God’s word to a source. The source of the creation also becomes, the essence of that creation. All things are composed of whatever they came from, and hence contain the potential of that source. That means plants only have the potential of the soil. Animals only have the potentials of dirt.

But when God was about to created human beings, He spoke to Himself: “Then God said, Let Us make man in Our image, in Our Likeness…” So God created man in His Own Image, in the Image of God He created him, male and female He created them (Genesis 1:26-27)

God created you by speaking to Himself. You came out of God and thus bear His Image and Likeness. Therefore, carry yourself with the consciousness that you are of GOD. You carry His DNA. Whatever operates in God works in you, for you and also through you to the glory of God Almighty, in the Highest! And whoever looks down on you should be ready to face the wrath of your Creator, because God poured Himself in you to manifest on Earth through you. You carry the wholeness of God! You are not of yourself, but of God Almighty! Therefore, who you are is related to where you came from. MANY LOOK, only a FEW see!

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PRIDE: The Plague That Drives, and Entombs the Proud

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By Tolulope A. Adegoke PhD

Pride is the only fortress that grows weaker as its walls grow taller; for it is built not of stone, but of certitude—and certitude, unlike granite, crumbles under the weight of its own reflection. The humble do not build walls; they build bridges to the very truths that threaten to undo them, knowing that what is undone can be remade, but what is unmoved is already ruins waiting for time to catch up.

 An Exposition on the Metamorphosis of Ego, the Architecture of Collapse, and the Antidote of Intellectual Humility

 I. Introduction: The Paradox of the Ascending Trajectory

To speak of “Pride” in the contemporary lexicon is often to invoke a benign, even necessary, virtue—the self-esteem required for innovation, the national spirit required for sovereignty, or the corporate confidence required for market dominance. However, the etymological and philosophical roots of Pride (from the Old English prȳde, akin to the Old Norse prúðr, meaning “brave” or “splendid”) harbor a latent volatility. When pride solidifies from a state of graceful confidence into a rigid state of hubris, it ceases to be a virtue and becomes a plague. This is not a moralistic judgment; it is an epidemiological fact of organizational, national, and personal psychology.

This treatise posits that Pride, in its pathogenic form, is the singular most potent inhibitor of evolutionary adaptability. It is the “plague that drives the proud” not toward the pinnacle of success, but toward the precipice of irrelevance. The proud are driven by a compulsive need to validate a static self-image, rather than a dynamic process of becoming. To solve the grand challenges facing Peoples, Corporates, and Nations, we must first diagnose the symptomatology of this plague and administer the rigorous antidote of Intellectual Humility—a framework that embraces fallibility as the engine of resilience.

II. The Phenomenology of the Plague: Diagnosing the Symptoms

Before prescribing a cure, we must map the pathology. The plague of pride manifests not as overt arrogance alone, but often as subtle, systemic dysfunctions across three distinct strata: the Individual, the Collective, and the Institutional.

1. The Narcissism of Small Differences (The Individual Level)

At the personal level, pathological pride creates a “cognitive armor” that repels external data incongruent with the self-concept. This is the “Dunning-Kruger Effect” elevated to a lifestyle. The proud individual suffers from a deficit of meta-cognition—they do not know what they do not know.

·         Exemplar: Consider the case of a seasoned CEO who refuses to adopt digital transformation because their legacy success validates their “gut instinct.” They confuse correlation (past success under specific conditions) with causation (their infallible decision-making). The plague drives them to reject junior analysts’ data, not because the data is flawed, but because acknowledging its validity would necessitate a reconstruction of their identity. The result is Blockbuster Video, Kodak, or Sears—mammoths frozen in the amber of their own past triumphs.

2. The Echo Chamber of Consensus (The Corporate Level)

In corporate structures, pride evolves into “Groupthink.” Here, the plague manifests as an institutional allergy to dissenting voices. The drive for cohesion overrides the imperative for veracity. When a corporation becomes proud of its culture to the exclusion of its market reality, it ceases to be a value-creating entity and becomes a value-preserving cult.

·         Exemplar: The fall of Enron was not merely a fraud of accounting; it was a fraud of intellect. The corporate pride in being “the smartest guys in the room” created a toxic environment where questioning the viability of the business model was tantamount to treason. They were driven by the pride of complex financial instruments, ignoring the simple reality of cash flow. The plague drove them to fabricate reality because accepting the truth would have been an unbearable admission of mediocrity.

3. The Imperial Overreach (The National Level)

For nations, the plague of pride is manifest as “Strategic Narcissism.” This is the conviction that historical exceptionalism guarantees future dominance. Nations afflicted by this plague view geopolitical shifts not as challenges to adapt to, but as insults to their ordained status. This leads to a fatal misallocation of resources—over-investing in the preservation of outdated paradigms and under-investing in emergent ones.

·         Exemplar: The decline of the Spanish Empire in the 17th century serves as a historical archetype. Flooded with New World silver, the Spanish Crown developed an arrogance that devalued domestic manufacturing and intellectual rigor. They were driven by the pride of being the Catholic Defender, ignoring the rising mercantile and scientific powers of Northern Europe. Their pride prevented the structural reforms necessary for solvency, resulting in repeated sovereign defaults. The plague drove them to prioritize image over infrastructure.

III. The Mechanics of the Plague: Why It Drives the Proud

The driving force of this plague is rooted in Cognitive Dissonance and the Sunk Cost Fallacy. The proud are not simply arrogant; they are trapped. Their identity is inextricably linked to their past decisions. To admit a flaw in the present is to retroactively invalidate the self. Therefore, the plague drives them to “double down.”

This mechanism operates through three distinct gears:

1.      The Selectivity of Attention: The proud perceive only data that confirms their bias (Confirmation Bias). They view critics not as informants, but as adversaries.

2.      The Denigration of the External: To protect the internal self, the proud must devalue the external world. Competitors are dismissed as “lucky” or “unethical.” New technologies are dismissed as “fads.”

3.      The Acceleration of Inertia: The proud do not stop; they accelerate into the abyss. Because stopping would require introspection, they increase velocity, mistaking motion for progress.

This dynamic creates a “fatal feedback loop.” The more the external world changes, the more rigid the internal world becomes. The plague drives the proud not toward a destination, but toward a collision course with reality.

IV. The Antidote: Intellectual Humility as Systemic Immunity

If Pride is the plague, Intellectual Humility is the vaccine. Crucially, this is not the absence of confidence; it is the regulation of confidence. It is the meta-cognitive awareness that one’s current map is not the territory. It is the capacity to hold strong convictions weakly—to be decisive in action yet tentative in epistemology.

To solve the challenges across Peoples, Corporates, and Nations, we must operationalize Intellectual Humility through three pillars:

1. The Red Team Imperative (For Corporates and Nations)

Institutional pride is dismantled through structural dissent. Corporations and governments must institutionalize the “Red Team”—a group whose explicit job is to disprove the prevailing hypothesis. This moves critique from the personal realm (accusation) to the procedural realm (analysis).

·         Application: The intelligence failures preceding the 2003 Iraq War (WMDs) were exacerbated by a lack of rigorous red-teaming. In contrast, the Cuban Missile Crisis was resolved successfully because President Kennedy actively sought dissenting voices against the aggressive advice of the Joint Chiefs. He humbled his administration’s pride by demanding alternative perspectives, preventing a nuclear catastrophe. For a corporation, this means promoting a “Devil’s Advocate” department that is rewarded for finding flaws in the business model, not for towing the line.

2. The “Pre-Mortem” Strategy (For Peoples and Leadership)

Psychologist Gary Klein introduced the “Pre-Mortem”—a technique where teams imagine that a project has failed spectacularly and work backward to determine the cause. This breaks the plague’s hold because it bypasses the defensive ego.

·         Application: Before launching a new national policy or corporate merger, leaders should force the team to write a “history of the future” detailing the catastrophe. This exercise forces the proud to externalize their fears, revealing latent risks that the plague of optimism would otherwise suppress. For individuals, this is the practice of asking, “If I am wrong about this deeply held belief, what evidence would prove it?”

4.      The Epistemological Audit (For the Self and Society)

We must audit our knowledge sources. The plague of pride thrives in informational vacuums.

·         Application: For Peoples, this means actively consuming media that challenges their political orthodoxy without immediately dismissing it. For nations, it means engaging in diplomatic and scientific exchanges with ideological rivals, not to compromise values, but to understand the rationale of the “other.” Intellectual humility requires the discipline to articulate the opposing argument better than the opposition can articulate it themselves. If you cannot argue against your own position with eloquence, you do not truly understand it.

V. The Strategic Rebranding of Failure

The most potent weapon against the plague is the redefinition of failure. The proud view failure as an identity, an indictment. The humble view failure as data. For Corporates, the “Fail Fast” mantra is often a cliché, but its true depth lies in psychological safety—the assurance that admitting a mistake will not result in retribution. For Nations, this requires a shift from “never apologize” to “intelligent accountability.” A nation that admits a strategic error (e.g., foreign policy missteps) is not weak; it is strategically agile. It disarms the plague by refusing to let the past dictate the future.

VI. The Manifesto of the Empowered Humble

To transcend the plague, we must adopt a new manifesto for the 21st century:

·         We reject the tyranny of the “Ego-System” and embrace the “Eco-System” of knowledge, recognizing that intelligence is distributed, not centralized.

·         We practice the “Pause.” Before reacting defensively to criticism, we pause to decode the signal from the noise.

·         We prioritize “Learning Velocity” over “Status Quo Maintenance.” The speed at which we can unlearn outdated data and relearn new paradigms is the new competitive advantage.

VII. Conclusion: The Ascent of the Humble

Pride, the plague, drives the proud toward isolation and obsolescence. It creates a brittle intelligence that shatters under pressure. Conversely, Intellectual Humility drives the wise toward resilience and relevance. It creates an anti-fragile intelligence that grows stronger with the shocks of new data.

For Peoples, the dissolution of pride allows for the reconstruction of fractured societies through the mutual recognition of shared fallibility. For Corporates, it ensures longevity beyond the tenure of a single visionary. For Nations, it ensures security not through belligerence, but through the soft power of adaptability and the hard power of strategic self-correction.

The proud are driven by a need to be right. The humble are driven by a need to get it right. One is a static pose; the other is a dynamic process. In the volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous (VUCA) world, the only sustainable trajectory is the one that accepts that the map must constantly be redrawn. The plague ends when we realize that we are not the cartographers of certainty, but the humble navigators of an ever-shifting sea. Let us, therefore, choose to be driven not by the arrogance of the known, but by the humility of the seeker.

Dr. Tolulope A. Adegoke, AMBP-UN is a globally recognized scholar-practitioner and thought leader at the nexus of security, governance, and strategic leadership. His mission is dedicated to advancing ethical governance, strategic human capital development, resilient nation building, and global peace. He can be reached via: tolulopeadegoke01@gmail.comglobalstageimpacts@gmail.com

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Hardship: Labour Unions Call for Review of N70k Minimum Wage

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Labour leaders have called for an urgent review of Nigeria’s N70,000 national minimum wage, saying the current wage no longer reflects the economic realities facing workers amid rising inflation and the cost of living.

The call was made at the 2026 Nigeria Rights of Workers Summit in Birnin Kebbi, Kebbi State, organised to commemorate 88 years of legally recognised trade unionism in Nigeria.

The summit, themed “The Rights of Workers: Decent Work and a Just Economy in Nigeria,” brought together labour leaders, policymakers, workers, employers, civil society organisations and representatives of the National Industrial Court.

Speaking on behalf of the President of the Nigeria Labour Congress, Joe Ajaero, the NLC Deputy President, Amba, identified the minimum wage as one of the major issues confronting Nigerian workers.

He said the N70,000 minimum wage had become inadequate in the face of the increasing cost of goods and services and called for fresh negotiations with the Federal and State governments.

“The current N70,000 minimum wage can no longer adequately respond to the realities confronting Nigerian workers, particularly with the rising cost of living.”

According to him, the expiration of the existing wage arrangement makes renewed discussions necessary to establish a wage that better reflects prevailing economic conditions.

Former President of the Nigeria Labour Congress, Ayuba Wabba, said the welfare of workers should not be viewed solely through the size of their pay packets.

He argued that decent work must also guarantee workers’ rights, social protection and meaningful engagement between labour, employers and government.

“Decent work is not only about wages. It is also about workers’ rights, social protection and meaningful social dialogue between workers, employers and government.”

The Convener of the summit and Executive Director of Call a Lawyer, Ekpa Stanley, said the 88th anniversary of trade unionism provided an opportunity to assess the progress made by Nigerian workers and identify areas requiring urgent attention.

He said the objective should be to ensure that the principles of decent work translate into tangible improvements in workers’ lives.

Meanwhile, Kebbi State Governor, Nasir Idris, assured workers that the State government would implement any new national minimum wage agreed upon at the federal level.

“Whatever is agreed upon at the national level on the minimum wage, Kebbi State will implement,” the governor said.

Idris also pledged to advocate for improved wages during discussions at the Nigeria Governors’ Forum, while commending civil servants for their contributions to governance and national development.

The summit also examined other challenges confronting workers, including workplace safety, discrimination, inflation and the protection of casual and other non-traditional workers.

As Nigeria marks 88 years of legally recognised trade unionism, labour leaders say the anniversary should serve as a renewed call for policies that guarantee fair compensation and better working conditions for workers.

They maintained that without a wage structure that keeps pace with economic realities, the gains of decades of workers’ organisation and collective bargaining risk being undermined.

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Enugu Forest Guard Rescues Kidnap Victim, Arrests Suspects

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The Enugu State Forest Guard (ENSFG) has recorded major operational successes in separate intelligence-led security operations across Nsukka and Uzo-Uwani local government areas, resulting in the rescue of a kidnap victim, the arrest of three suspected criminal operatives, the recovery of stolen property, and the successful foiling of another attempted kidnapping, National Association of Online Security News Publishers, NAOSNP can report.

In Nsukka Local Government Area, operatives of the Enugu State Forest Guard, working jointly with members of the local hunters’ association, successfully rescued Mrs. Asadu Calistar of Opkuje Community, who was abducted by suspected kidnappers while working on her farm with her children along the Anuka Road axis.

Acting swiftly on credible intelligence, the joint security team launched a coordinated search-and-rescue operation and engaged the kidnappers in an exchange of gunfire. The victim was rescued unharmed, one suspected kidnapper was arrested, while three others fled into the forest. The victim and the suspect have been handed over to the Nigeria Police Force for further investigation, while bush-combing operations continue to apprehend the fleeing suspects.

In a separate operation in Uzo-Uwani Local Government Area, operatives of the Ogboli Forest Guard, in collaboration with the Ogurugu and Ojjor Neighbourhood Watch groups, arrested Mr. Ugbedeojo John and Mr. Chidi Adaji, who were allegedly conveying two dismantled stolen motorcycles.

Preliminary investigation revealed that the motorcycles had been dismantled, with the engines and several major components allegedly sold at Adani, while the remaining parts were recovered during the operation. The recovered exhibits were later identified by their owner, Mr. Edwin Dibiagu. The suspects and recovered exhibits have been handed over to the Nigeria Police Force for further investigation and necessary legal action, while efforts continue to identify and apprehend other members of the suspected criminal network.

Later the same day, at about 1820 hours, the Enugu State Forest Guard successfully foiled an attempted kidnapping along the Opi–Agu-Agu–Ekwegbe–Agu-Ukehe (Ugwuogo) Road in Nsukka Local Government Area.

Suspected armed kidnappers reportedly emerged from the adjoining bush at Opi-Uno and opened fire on a passing Toyota Sienna vehicle and other road users in an apparent attempt to force vehicles to stop for abduction. Responding promptly to the distress call, operatives of the Enugu State Forest Guard Headquarters Special Squad, working alongside the Distress Response Squad (DRS) of the Nigeria Police Force, engaged the armed suspects in a gun battle, forcing them to abandon their operation and flee into the surrounding forest.
Security operatives recovered several expended 7.62mm calibre cartridge cases believed to have been fired from AK-pattern rifles. No person was kidnapped during the attempted attack, and joint pursuit operations by the Nsukka Forest Guard Command and Ezimo Sector are ongoing to apprehend the fleeing suspects.
The Enugu State Forest Guard commends the courage, professionalism, and vigilance of its personnel, the Nigeria Police Force, local hunters, and neighbourhood watch groups whose continued collaboration has significantly strengthened the fight against kidnapping and other violent crimes across the State.
The Command reassures residents that intelligence-led operations and proactive security patrols will continue across Enugu State to deny criminals safe havens and protect lives and property. Members of the public are encouraged to remain vigilant and continue providing timely and credible information to security agencies.
The Enugu State Forest Guard remains steadfast in its commitment to working with all security agencies and community stakeholders to ensure lasting peace, security, and public safety throughout Enugu State.

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