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Sex is undeniably pleasurable. However, sex-related issues are among common reasons for disagreements among couples. Some partners don’t view sex as vital hence their failure to value its benefits to their wellbeing. Experts have noted that couples should handle sex matter well so they don’t become knotty in the bedroom.

Couples can learn from the 10 benefits of regular sex below to ignite their sex lives.

  • Sex makes you hate your job less

Researchers have linked loving one’s job to having a good sex life. They said that good sex life can make one enjoy one’s less. The research published in the Journal of Management stated that good sex would not only stop one from hating one’s job, but also make one love one’s job more.

Oregon State University researchers asked 159 married employees to complete two surveys every day for two weeks. The participants noted how many times they had sex between the end of their work shift and the next morning. Then, in the afternoon, they answered questions about how happy and engaged they felt at their jobs.

People who had sex the night before work were more likely to immerse themselves at their jobs and enjoy their time in the office the next day than those who didn’t make time for sex, the researchers found.

The researcher said, “ This might happen because sex produces a significant ‘morning positive effect.’ Meaning all of the good feelings associated with sex mainly stemming from feel-good chemicals like oxytocin and dopamine carried over and produced a nice mood boost the next day, too.”

  • Sex lowers your cancer risk

According to a study from the Boston University of Public Health, frequent ejaculation lowers prostate cancer risk in men, Health24.com stated.

Researchers surveyed nearly 32,000 men about their ejaculation frequency and followed them up for 18 years. They found that men between age 20 and 29 were 19 per cent less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer if they ejaculated 21 times or more each month compared to guys who didn’t ejaculate as often.

The benefit was even greater for older men; men 40 to 49 who met the same ejaculation standards saw a two-per cent reduction in their prostate cancer risk.

The study authors said frequent ejaculation might play a part in clearing out any cancer-causing infections that could develop within one’s prostate. It boosts the immune system and lowers the risk of prostate and breast cancer.

  • Sex helps you sleep better

Suffering from insomnia? Don’t overwork yourself. Sex increases one’s heart rate which then helps the body to relax. Feel-good hormones are released during sex, in turn, promoting better sleep and rest. This is one of the major benefits of sex in marriage.

Sex has also been linked to good sleep by some medical experts. One of such is a men’s health sleep advisor, Dr Chirstopher Winter, who said orgasm helped one to sleep better.

He said, “Sex primes you for the perfect snooze by making you feel super relaxed, thanks to oxytocin’s stress-reducing effects. But oxytocin isn’t the only hormone that floods your system after orgasm. Your body also releases a hormone called prolactin, which suppresses dopamine, a neurotransmitter that helps you feel awake.

“Also, if you are having sex in the dark, your body will think it’s time for bed. So that sparks the release of melatonin, a hormone that makes you feel sleepy and tells your body it’s time to rest. The combination of those three hormones makes you sleep in no time.”

  • Frequent sex may protect your heart

After following more than 100 men for an average of 16 years, researchers found that men who had sex two to three times per week had a significantly lower rate of cardiovascular disease than men who only had sex a few times a month or less, according to a study published in the American Journal of Cardiology.

There are some theories as to why that could be, according to the researchers. For one, sex contributes to the physical activity needed to protect one’s heart, Healthline.com stated.

The American Heart Association recommended 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week, so regular outdoor exercise should be done in addition to what one does in the bedroom. Besides, it noted that if one was having frequent sex, one would more likely to be in an intimate relationship.

The researchers, however, put a caveat to this, saying if a person had cardiovascular problems in the past, such person should probably wait to have sex until their heart issues returned to normal.

“Talk to your doctor before you do the deed, especially if you are on medication,’’ the researcher added.

A supportive partner makes for a happier heart– physically and emotionally by easing your stress levels. That’s a win for your ticker. Too much stress can cause a heart attack or stroke by increasing the amount of inflammation in your body, a research from Harvard Medical School found.

  • Sex helps your penis perform better

A study published in the American Journal of Medicine stated that having sex keeps manhood strong. It stated that men don’t have to use the weapon often to notice the benefits.

In a five-year Finnish survey of nearly 1,000 men aged 55 to 75 years old, those who had sex once a week were half as likely to develop erectile dysfunction than men who did less often.

Supporting this study, a medical doctor, Juha Koskimäki, said, “An erection delivers crucial amounts of oxygen to your penis. Low oxygen levels can cause scar tissue to develop, which can make it difficult to get hard. But if you’re going through a dry spell, remember that other factors you’re in control of – like smoking and inactivity also raise your erectile dysfunction.’’

  • Sex makes you happier

It’s normal to be excited and happy after orgasm but that’s not all to it. There are also scientific reasons why one experiences bliss after having great sex.

Scientists explained that the body is flooded with oxytocin, a stress-reducing hormone a few minutes after one climaxes. “This makes one feel relaxed, happy, and closer to one’s partner afterward,’’ the scientist added.

A sex researcher at Indiana University, Dr Debby Herbenick, said, “Since your oxytocin levels stabilise 10 minutes after you orgasm, try cuddling post-coitus to keep the good vibes going. Oxytocin can be released not only during intercourse but also during close touching.”

Also, a lead researcher of a Canadian study on how sex makes one happier, Dr Robin Milhausen, said, “Not cuddling is the biggest mistake you make in bed, the woman is more likely to find the experience pleasurable if you spend six to 10 minutes cuddling with her afterward. She also gets a rush of oxytocin after orgasming, which makes her crave more affection. Simply playing with her hair, rubbing her back or resting her head on your chest can help her get that.”

  • Sex makes you look younger

A clinical neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital, Dr David Weeks, said his extensive research had found older men and women with an active love lives looked five to seven years younger than their actual age.

He said, “But you don’t have to be at it every night to enjoy youth-enhancing effects. In fact, during my 10-year study, I found the quality was as important as quantity, with the anti-ageing benefits stronger if the sex was classed as loving.”

  • Sex might relieve your headache

An orgasm might act as a natural pain-reliever, according to a 2013 German study. Your brain is bombarded with endorphins; neurotransmitters that produce a feeling of pleasure and pain relief-during sex, so researchers wanted to find out if having sex while one’s head was aching might ease the pain.

As published in Health24.com, they surveyed nearly 300 people with migraines and more than 60 with cluster headaches who had sex during an episode and found that 60 per cent of migraine sufferers and 37 per cent with cluster headaches said they felt better afterward.

  • Sex makes your relationship better

It is often believed that sex makes relationships last longer but there’s more to mentioning it on the surface. A study from the University of Toronto Mississauga said having sex once a week kept lovers happy.

The research stated that having sex more than once wouldn’t make one happier so sex once in a week is what one needed to make one relationship more lively, healthier and better.

Also, a study published in the Association for Psychological Science, said all the happy feelings experienced after sex could last up to 48 hours for couples, which keeps their bond going strong long after the completion of the session.

  • Sex burns kilojoules

A biostatistician at the University of Alabama at Birmingham, David Allison, found that the average person burnt a mere 21 calories during average sex session. He discovered that sex lasted six minutes on average, noting that the energy output equated to a paltry 20 or so calories, about the same as walking.

However, if done with enough gusto, sex could still count as ‘significant exercise’, the Quebec researchers said, reporting in the journal Plos One.

“The level of intensity that is exerted from sexual activity could be higher than that of walking at (4.8km/h) but less than that of jogging at (8km/h),” the researchers wrote in the study.

The researchers, from the University of Quebec at Montreal, looked at 21 heterosexual couples aged between 18 and 35. The average recorded session lasted 24.7 minutes – the shortest being 10 and the longest 57 minutes. During four sex sessions at home, couples wore a SenseWear armband that tracked their energy expenditure. They also answered questions on how tired they were afterwards, how much effort they put in and how much they enjoyed it.

Participants previously underwent a half-hour treadmill test so the researches could measure how many calories they burned during exertion-and then compared the readings from the armband worn during sex. Men, for example, burned 9.2 calories per minute on the treadmill – but 4.2 in the bedroom. For women, this fell to 7.1 calories while jogging.

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Sex Romp in Osun Claims Male Partner’s Life, Woman Arrested

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The Osun State Police Command has arrested a woman after a vigilante member, identified as Sunday and popularly known as Apetu, died shortly after having a sexual encounter with her in Ile-Ife, Osun State.

A video circulated on social media showed the man in severe distress at Ooni Ilare Street, where he was heard pleading with the woman to give him urine.

The incident occurred on Sunday around 2:30pm in the Odi-Olokun area of Ile-Ife, after which the woman was taken into custody at the Moore Police Division.

According to a situation report attributed to the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, Apetu was found gasping, screaming and pleading with the woman while showing signs of severe physical distress after the encounter.

The report said the man eventually died from the incident, while his remains were deposited at the morgue of the Obafemi Awolowo University Teaching Hospitals Complex, Ile-Ife.

The cause of Apetu’s death has not been officially established, despite claims by some residents that he died from what they described as a “thunderbolt.”

Authorities have not confirmed the claim or established any link between the traditional belief and the man’s death.

The belief centres on a traditional claim that a person affected by a supposed “thunderbolt” spell could harm another person through sexual contact. However, the claim has not been established as a medical or scientific explanation for the death.

A senior officer of the Osun State Police Command said the command was aware of the reports circulating on social media but warned members of the public against spreading unverified information.

The incident has drawn attention in Ile-Ife because of the conflicting accounts surrounding the sudden death.

Authorities have urged residents to remain calm and allow the police and relevant medical authorities to establish the actual cause of death.

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Basit Kolade: Lagos Police Confirm Mob Action, Arrest of Four Suspects

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The Lagos State Police Command has confirmed a mob action which allegedly led to the death of one Basit Kolade.

The victim was allegedly attacked by a group of individuals following a road traffic incident at Freeman Street, Lagos Island, on Wednesday, 2nd September 2026, at about 10:40 p.m, a statement signed by the Public Relations Officer, SP Adebisi Abimbola, and made available to the National Association of Online Security News Publishers (NAOSNP), said.

The Police noted in the stateent as follows:

Preliminary investigation revealed that Basit Kolade was travelling with his spouse, from Ebute Metta towards Lagos Island in a black Lexus Jeep, with registration number KSF 115 JZ, when a motorcycle allegedly collided with the vehicle from behind.

An argument reportedly ensued between both of them. In the course of the incident, the vehicle allegedly reversed and hit the motorcycle, causing the rider and the motorcycle to fall. This reportedly attracted a group of individuals in the area, who allegedly attacked Basit with dangerous weapons. His spouse was rescued by some women in the vicinity, while Kolade was rushed to the Lagos Island General Hospital, where he was subsequently confirmed dead. The motorcycle rider who was allegedly hit in the incident is, however, alive and currently receiving medical treatment in a hospital.

Four (4) suspects have so far been arrested in connection with the attack. They are Khalid Rafiq ‘m’ 20 years; Gafar Rahim ‘m’ 21 years; Ibrahim Azeez ‘m’ 33 years; and Samos Momoh ‘m’ 21 years. Efforts are ongoing to identify and arrest other persons who allegedly participated in the attack.

The Command has commenced an investigation into the incident, which is being treated as a homicide case, and the matter has been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID), Panti, for further investigation and appropriate legal action.

The Command wishes to reiterate that the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, as amended, guarantees every person the fundamental right to life under Section 33. The Constitution permits deprivation of life only in circumstances specifically recognised by law.

Similarly, under the Criminal Law of Lagos State, unlawful killing constitutes an offence of homicide. The law provides that unlawful killing may amount to murder or manslaughter depending on the circumstances. In particular, the provisions on murder cover unlawful killing with the intention to kill or cause grievous harm, with the law prescribing severe punishment upon conviction.

The Command therefore warns members of the public against mob action, jungle justice, and the resort to self-help under any circumstance. No individual or group has the legal authority to arrest, try, convict, or execute another person.

The warning is consistent with the directive of the Inspector-General of Police, IGP Olatunji Rilwan Disu, psc(+), NPM, who has directed Police Commands to treat cases involving mob action resulting in death as homicide and warned that persons who participate in, organise, incite, or support such attacks will face the full weight of the law.

The Command reiterates that suspicion or an allegation of wrongdoing does not confer on anyone the right to take the law into their own hands. Members of the public are urged to promptly report criminal incidents to the Police and allow the law to take its course.

The Commissioner of Police, Lagos State Command, CP Tijani Fatai, psc, mnips, has directed that all persons found culpable in the incident be identified, arrested, and prosecuted in accordance with the law. He assures members of the public that the investigation will be thorough and professional, and that all persons found to have participated in the attack or otherwise contributed to the death will be made to face the law.

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The GOSHENOMICS: Productive Preparation for Crisis Resilience

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By Tolulope A. Adegoke

“When the ground trembles beneath the feet of the unprepared, those who have built upon the rock of foresight shall not only stand but flourish. Goshen was not a place of escape—it was a place of productivity amidst plagues, light amidst darkness, and life amidst death. Prepare not to survive, but to live.” – Tolulope A. Adegoke, PhD

The year 2030 isn’t the end of the world—but it may be the end of the world as you know it. Here’s how to prepare, not just to survive, but to thrive.

Introduction: Why 2030 Matters More Than You Think

The year 2030 isn’t just another date on the calendar. It’s a convergence point where multiple global forces collide—artificial intelligence reaching mass deployment, climate impacts intensifying, economic systems restructuring, and the United Nations Sustainable Development Goals reaching their target year.

The question isn’t whether these changes will happen. It’s whether you’ll be positioned to flourish when they do.

Goshen wasn’t merely a place of survival—it was a place of productivity, light, and life amidst surrounding darkness. GOSHENOMICS applies that same principle to today’s realities: productive preparation that builds assets, communities, and systems designed to thrive when others merely endure.

This isn’t about fear. It’s about faith, purpose, and proactive action. Let’s explore how.

Part One: Agribusinesses—Food Production as the Foundation

Why Food Security Matters Now More Than Ever

Agriculture remains the bedrock of civilization. Yet smallholder farmers across the globe face systemic barriers—limited irrigation, climate vulnerability, and inadequate access to technology. When these farmers struggle, everyone feels the impact.

“Build skills, understand food, and build redundancy.” This isn’t survivalist rhetoric—it’s strategic foresight.

The GOSHENOMICS Solution: Precision Agriculture

Precision Agriculture at Scale: Integrating machine learning and drone technology transforms smallholder farming from subsistence to surplus. Field research demonstrates significant increases in crop yields alongside substantial reductions in water usage when IoT sensors, weather forecasting platforms, and autonomous drones work together.

Autonomous Irrigation Systems: Collaborative multi-drone systems with swarm intelligence enable real-time, localized irrigation decisions. These systems adapt to changing conditions, conserve water, and optimize crop health continuously.

Software for Forecasting: Build platforms that analyze weather patterns, soil conditions, and market data to inform planting, harvesting, and distribution decisions. This moves agriculture from gambling on climate to managing climate as a calculated variable.

How Drones Are Revolutionizing Agriculture

Drones equipped with multispectral and thermal cameras detect stress from pests, diseases, nutrient deficiencies, and water shortages before problems spread. Drone-based spraying systems apply pesticides and fertilizers with exceptional precision, reducing chemical usage by up to ninety percent while improving efficacy. Drones also track livestock movement, detect illness, and monitor herd health in extensive grazing systems. They generate detailed topographic maps that inform planting patterns, drainage planning, and water management decisions.

The Implementation Roadmap

Start now by identifying local food production gaps and designing scalable interventions. Build redundancy by developing multiple production sites, diverse crop portfolios, and storage systems. Finally, integrate by connecting production to processing, storage, and distribution networks that keep value within communities.

Part Two: Community—The Commonwealth of an Ecosystem

Why Community Matters

Resilience isn’t individual—it’s communal. The Commonwealth of an Ecosystem recognizes that no farm, business, or household is an island. Survival and flourishing depend on interconnected systems of mutual support, shared resources, and collective capability.

Strong communities are the essential social infrastructure that enables individuals and families to weather crises and seize opportunities.

The Evidence

International development programs have demonstrated that grassroots initiatives generate measurable returns. Climate adaptation investments at the community level have restored hundreds of thousands of hectares of degraded land, reached millions of people, and moved communities toward sustainable revenue generation.

The lesson is clear: communities aren’t passive recipients of aid—they’re agents of change.

The GOSHENOMICS Approach

Build local institutions that formalize community governance structures to manage resources, make decisions, and allocate investments transparently. Create resilient networks because social capital—connectedness, trust, networks, and collective capacity—is the infrastructure of community resilience. Self-organizing communities with agency and shared responsibility weather crises more effectively.

Integrate indigenous knowledge with technology because the most sustainable solutions anchor technology in local wisdom and practice. Context-adapted systems demonstrate higher adoption rates and better outcomes. Finally, build capacity and skills by investing in agricultural capabilities, technical competencies, business acumen, and leadership development.

Part Three: Technology—Building the Infrastructure of the Future

Solar Electrification

Solar energy offers a reliable, sustainable, and increasingly cost-effective solution for electricity access. Off-grid standalone solar systems eliminate dependence on fragile grid infrastructure. Solar microgrids provide community-scale power to multiple users through local distribution networks. Solar water pumping delivers water for agriculture without grid electricity or diesel. Solar refrigeration enables cold storage for agricultural products, vaccines, and other temperature-sensitive goods.

The economic benefits are substantial. Solar systems eliminate ongoing fuel costs, reducing operating expenses. Energy independence reduces dependence on imported fuels and vulnerable infrastructure. Reliable electricity enables productive enterprises that create employment and income. Quality of life improves through lighting, communication, education, and health services.

Boreholes and Water Infrastructure

Sustainable groundwater extraction through properly designed boreholes with solar-powered pumps delivers water efficiently without ongoing fuel costs or emissions. Smart irrigation systems—including drip irrigation, automated scheduling, and remote monitoring—optimize water use and improve yields. Water storage through tanks and systems buffers against variable extraction rates and ensures availability during dry periods.

Software and Digital Platforms

Agricultural software includes farm management systems, weather forecasting, yield prediction, and market intelligence. Community software encompasses information sharing platforms, resource management systems, and emergency alert networks. Economic software covers supply chain management, financial services, and market platforms. Forecasting and planning tools include scenario planning, risk assessment, and decision support.

Part Four: The Daniel Principle—Integration Without Compromise

Strategic Engagement and Boundary Setting

Integration isn’t compromise unless you eat the king’s meal. The Daniel Principle—named for the biblical figure who maintained his identity and integrity while serving in a foreign empire—is central to GOSHENOMICS.

Know What to Say No To

Not all technology serves human flourishing. Not all partnerships align with community values. Not all innovations are worth adopting. Discernment is essential.

Build Productive Assets, Not Speculative Ones

Don’t spend the next four years predicting catastrophe while building nothing. When AI is “in vogue,” invest in what endures: skills that enable productive work, community that provides mutual support, food systems that ensure nourishment, energy independence that provides security, and water security that sustains life.

Work Yourself Out of Your Job

True resilience means you’re not irreplaceable—it means the community continues functioning without you. Train successors who can perform your roles. Document knowledge so it can be transferred. Build systems that function with limited supervision. Create redundancy so no single point of failure exists.

Part Five: What to Expect Toward 2030

Artificial Intelligence Deployment

Artificial intelligence will achieve mass adoption across all sectors of economy and society. Labor markets will experience significant shifts as some jobs are eliminated and others transform. Productivity gains will create opportunities and disruption. Energy demand will increase, placing pressure on infrastructure. Governance challenges will require regulation, ethics, and social adaptation.

Climate Impacts

Climate change will bring increasing extremes with more frequent and severe weather events. Agricultural impacts will include shifting growing conditions and production zones. Water scarcity will intensify pressure on resources. Population movements will increase as climate-induced migration grows. Infrastructure will face pressure, requiring investment in resilience.

Economic Shifts

Markets will restructure as some transform or disappear. Investment patterns will shift toward climate adaptation and technology. Value chains will change toward greater resilience and sustainability. Financial systems will adapt to new risks and opportunities.

Healthcare and Demographics

Medical breakthroughs will extend lifespans and improve quality of life. Demographic shifts will create different challenges across regions. Health systems will face increasing pressure as demand grows.

Part Six: The GOSHENOMICS Preparation Strategy

Build with the Ground Beneath Your Feet

Build on local foundations using local resources, knowledge, and capabilities. Invest in physical infrastructure including land, buildings, equipment, water, and energy. Build strong community institutions with robust governance and management systems. Invest in relationships and networks that provide mutual support.

Have Food Growing Around You

Prioritize local food production for local consumption. Build food redundancy through multiple production sources, storage options, and supply channels. Produce nutritious, diverse food that supports health and wellbeing. Ensure food sovereignty so communities have control over their food systems.

Have Technology in Your Palm

Deploy appropriate technology that meets community needs and capabilities. Develop digital literacy skills to use technology effectively. Build technology redundancy through multiple options and backup systems. Maintain data sovereignty so communities control their data and information.

Have Community Beside You

Cultivate strong social networks through connected communities that support one another. Develop shared purpose around common values, vision, and goals. Build capacity for collective action to act together effectively. Establish mutual support systems for community members.

Have Purpose Inside You

Maintain a clear vision of desired future and pathway to achieve it. Sustain commitment and dedication to realizing the vision. Embrace adaptability and willingness to adjust approaches while maintaining purpose. Develop resilience and ability to persevere through challenges.

Part Seven: Your Four-Year Deployment Agenda

Year One: Assessment and Foundation

During the first year, conduct a comprehensive assessment of current conditions, resources, and capabilities. Develop detailed plans for each GOSHENOMICS dimension. Build community awareness, commitment, and participation. Secure necessary resources—financial, technical, and human. Launch demonstration projects in critical areas.

Year Two: Implementation and Learning

In year two, launch full implementation of priority initiatives. Develop necessary skills and capabilities through training. Track progress and learn from experience. Adjust approaches based on emerging insights. Build strategic partnerships with external organizations.

Year Three: Scaling and Integration

Year three focuses on expanding successful initiatives to wider areas. Connect different dimensions into coherent systems. Create backup systems and multiple options. Ensure ongoing operation and maintenance. Prepare for leadership and management transitions.

Year Four: Optimization and Readiness

The final year involves refining systems based on operational experience. Conduct comprehensive evaluation of outcomes and impact. Address remaining gaps and vulnerabilities. Confirm readiness for 2030 challenges. Implement leadership and management transitions.

Conclusion: Deploy GOSHENOMICS—Not for Survival, but for Living

2030 may not be the end of the world, but it may be the end of the world as you know it. When the bubble bursts—and it will—some markets, some systems, some assumptions will change and become strange realities.

It will be negligent if this happens and catches you by surprise with the ground above your feet.

The GOSHENOMICS framework is practical, actionable, and grounded in proven principles while projecting toward future realities. It emphasizes tangible assets, skills, and relationships over speculation and fear.

Don’t spend the next years predicting catastrophe while building nothing. Build productive assets. Build skills. Build community. Build redundancy. Build GOSHEN.

With the ground beneath your feet, with food growing around you, with technology in your palm, and community beside you, and purpose inside you—you’re ready.

Don’t fail in 2030—build for it.

Key Takeaways for Action

Food: Build local, diversified, resilient food systems with precision agriculture.

Community: Strengthen social capital, institutions, and mutual support networks.

Economy: Build productive assets, community-based enterprises, and diversified income.

Technology: Deploy solar, smart irrigation, drones, and digital platforms strategically.

Integration: Engage with external systems without compromising core values.

Redundancy: Build multiple options, backups, and alternatives for critical functions.

Skills: Develop agricultural, technical, business, and leadership capabilities.

Purpose: Maintain clear vision, commitment, adaptability, and resilience.

GOSHENOMICS is not about fear—it’s about faith, purpose, and proactive action.

Build for 2030. Build for flourishing. Build GOSHEN.

“Deploy GOSHENOMICS—not for survival, but for living.”

Dr. Tolulope A. Adegoke, AMBP-UN, is a globally recognized scholar-practitioner and thought leader at the nexus of security, governance, and strategic leadership. His mission is dedicated to advancing ethical governance, strategic human capital development, resilient nation-building, and global peace. He bridges the worlds of academic rigor and practical application, contributing to leadership discourse at the highest levels of policy and practice. He can be reached viatolulopeadegoke01@gmail.comglobalstageimpacts@gmail.com

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