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Food for Living: Juxtaposing Passion and Talent

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By Henry Ukazu
Dear Destiny Friends,
In recent times, debates about following one’s passion as opposed to focusing on one’s talent, have been on the front burner. Some schools of thought believe that success entails following one’s passion of which consistency will play a great role in bringing about a breakthrough. These schools of thought believe that a person’s passion will always give him the strength to persevere. As a matter of fact, they believe that when one is passionate about a cause, they will go all out for it; wake early every morning to pursue it. Passion is ordinarily loving the job one does, and diligently appearing at it every day.
However, if anyone is not passionate about a cause, their energy will be low. As a matter of fact, even if you are paid a fortune to do the job, you will do it just because of the money and not because of the love for it, and at the end of the day, tiredness and frustration will set in.
One of the best ways to drive home this point is stooping low to marry for the wrong reasons. Imagine marrying a lady for the looks as opposed to character, and imagine marrying a man because of money as opposed to vision, character and values he represents. When the money is finished, you will be saddled with an empty vessel.
There’s no doubt passion is good, but there’s more to life than passion. As human beings, we are all passionate about a cause. While some people have causes that are of interest to them like helping the less privilege, eradicating hunger, injustice and improving the lifestyles of human beings, some other minds are interested in good governance, accountability, education and promotion of good moral values.
To understand the relativity of passion and talents, we must understand what passion and talent are. According to Britannica dictionary, passion can be as defined “as a strong feeling of enthusiasm or excitement for something or about doing something”. When you see someone who is passionate about a cause, you will see how they invest their time and energy into the cause. As a matter of fact, the energy will be palpable. But when someone is not excited about a cause, they rarely invest their time, money and resources into the project.
I can relate to this having studied Taxation Law in New York Law School, a major I detest with passion. One might be wondering or surprised at why I majored on a subject I never had interest in. Well, the answer is not far fetched, I misinterpreted my late dad’s counsel upon arrival in United States. According to him USA, is facing a recession and any major I intend to study must be relevant to secure me a job. I told him, I don’t like tax, and my brain is not wired for tax concept. As a matter of fact, I hated numbers with passion. If there’s no major to study for graduate school, Taxation law was the last major I would like to study. But I had to do it because according to him, that’s the only major I can do to survive in the United States because of the prevailing recession at the said time.
There are certain things that interests us as human beings. These interests can be described as passion. These can be sports, academic, religious, entertainment, traveling, writing, dancing, and even praying. Just like every taste bud is different; every human is also different. The ability to understand every person and what works for them can be the game changer.
On the other hand, and according to Cambridge Dictionary, talent can be defined as the natural skill or ability to be good at something, especially without being taught. Talent can be likened to gift. We don’t pay for it. At creation, God endowed everyone with different talents and gifts to use for problem solving. But many has used their talents and gifts for mere entertainment or pleasure instead of earning income.
It should be noted there’s nothing we need as human beings that we don’t have in our body. God gave us hands to eat, but we manufacture spoons, God gave us legs to walk but invented cars, bicycles and planes. God gave us eyes, but we manufactured goggles. The list is endless.
If I may ask, between passion and talent which one should a progressive person focus on? This is a very interesting question. There’s no doubt, both are very important, however, if I am to chose, I will go with talent because one’s talent is like one’s purpose. When you focus on your talent, it can be developed into passion, but when you focus on your passion and leave your talent to die, there’s a tendency for failure because a certain component is missing.
It is generally said passion does not pay the bills. So, regardless of how good someone is at doing something, if it is not generating income, strife, anger, pain and frustration is likely to creep in.
According to Professor Ndubusi Ekekwe, “I can say that following my talent (here, inborn natural ability), and not necessarily my passion, helps me thrive. And for financial success, passion does not generate financial outcomes automatically. What makes money for you is your talent or skill you have mastered.
But if your passion falls within your talent or skill acquired, that is a huge blessing. But note this, it must be in this order: discover the talent or what you are good at, and develop and nurture it, over time, that thing will become your passion, because you have a deep mastery of it. In other words, your talent which is unlocked will boost your personal confidence, deepen mastery and success, and over time, it will converge as a passion.
But if you begin with passion, without the necessary talent, you could be frustrated, financially. It is very possible that people will tell you to follow your passion, and over time, you would use it to unlock financial freedom. That is wrong. If you develop your passion and it cannot earn you income, you have not helped yourself. Do this: check what you can do really well, focus on how you can develop yourself best in it, and that possibly will cushion more financial stability because you will be successful in it, and people will pay you for it. But following a talent-less passion will lead to frustrations. Of course, you could be among the blessed: your talent falls into your passion where you have inborn natural ability in something you are passionate about.
I personally concur with this assertion. We need to step into the contemporary style of thinking. Though passion is good, we need to live because passion alone does not pay the bills, what pay the bills is the work we do.
In conclusion, as your journey through life, ask yourself are you led by passion or talent.
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator.  He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny Design  and Unleash Your Destiny .  He can be reached via info@gloemi.com
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Food for Living: You are a Star

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By Henry Ukazu

Dear Destiny Friends,

We are all stars, but sometimes we act like the moon and sun. Don’t get me wrong, the moon and sun are all God’s creatures, but in this context, I’m referring to the star as it relates to being a standard, an exceptional being and a leader that will set the pace for others to follow.

Being a star gives you an identity and opportunity to showcase the world what you are made of. Your star will shine when you are working on purpose. At creation, we were all created with a unique purpose which will be manifested on earth. So, it’s fair to say our purpose was made in heaven, but our assignment is on earth.

It’s instructive to note that our start is the embodiment of what makes us to be identifiable, recognizable and traceable.  When our star is shining, the world stands still and observes. Isn’t it true that the world sets apart for the man who knows where he’s going.

Everyone loves a star. Imagine being the best in your class, team, or even in the family, you will be the envy of everyone. Stars attract jealousy.  To understand how a star works, imagine playing soccer, despite each team having captains and star players, it’s whoever that has the ball the attention of the players, spectators and the world will be focused on because at that moment, whoever has the ball is the star, hence the reason why the person is being tackled.

Stars attract favor, blessings, opportunities, and blessings just because they are fulfilling their purpose of manifestation. As a self-discovery coach, I propounded the concept of STAR. S stands for shining, T represents Target, the A represents Action and R represents Recognition.

A brief analysis of the concept of STAR will give a proper perspective. When one is a star, one will be a shining star, and when one is a shining star, they’ll definitely be a target because the sugar will always attract ants. Because one is a star, they’ll be action oriented. A star can’t be hidden. It is the work they do that makes them noticeable which ultimately gives them recognition.

If I may ask you, are you a star? If yes, what makes you a star? Stars are a unique set of people who excel more than their counterparts or contemporaries. Stars defy human logic and understanding, especially when there is a spiritual element attached to it. While humans go to school to acquire knowledge and information, stars have inherent and intuitive knowledge which is revealed to them from God.

A little insight into the inherent and intuitive knowledge of how stars work. One’s profession is what one is trained to do in school or even taught in practice, one’s vocation is what one is paid to do like skilled work or a regular 9-5 work, while one’s ministry is where one’s talent/gift manifests their God given potential. When one is a star, both their profession, vocation and ministry will be working in alignment. They won’t have to do much to excel. Their light will gradually shine effortlessly with little or no support. A little effort by them will magnify their work.

It’s unfortunate that many stars can’t shine because many people are afraid of stepping out of their comfort zone. Some of us are afraid of what the world will say, how their message will be received, and how one can overcome these challenges if their star is not shining as it ought to. This is one of the major challenges why most people fail to activate their star. Trust me, I get it. The fears and concerns are valid. As humans we are bound to have fears, however, our desire for success should outweigh our fear for failure.

Do you know that the grave is considered the richest place on planet earth? Yes, because many talents are buried inside the grave simply because some people failed to unleash their talents, gifts and God given potentials. Here is what I will say, may we not die with what God has given to us.

Do you want to be a star? If yes, ask yourself, what makes you unique? If you discover it, say to yourself, I am a star, I am blessed. I am a child of destiny. I will fulfill my purpose. I will not die with what God has given to me. I will shine and I will possess my possession because I am a star.

Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny- Actualizing Your Birthright to SuccessUnleash Your Destiny and The Six Pillars of Success . He can be reached via info@gloemi.com

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Osogbo Shooting: Davido, Not Gov Adeleke Was the Target – Police

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Music star, David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, was the target of the attack on the convoy of Osun State governor, according to the police.

Daily Trust had reported how security escorts of the governor engaged some unidentified men in a gun duel during the governor’s visit to the palace of the Ataoja of Osogbo, earlier on Wednesday.

The governor had visited the monarch shortly after receiving his certificate of return from the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC).

 

His nephew, Davido, who was actively involved in the election, alongside his children, accompanied the governor to INEC office and the palace.

Some residents of Oja Oba Osogbo said gunshots caused panic for over 15 minutes as the men kept shooting sporadically while the governor’s security detail returned fire.

Commenting on the incident, Police Public Relations Officer in Osun, Abiodun Ojelabi, said preliminary investigation revealed that members of Eye Confraternity were after Davido.

“One Adebayo Taoreed, popularly known as “Small Rugged”, an ex convict, a suspected notorious thug and a member of eye confraternity allegedly attempted to gain access to Davido but was resisted by members of his security Team.

“The ensuing confrontation reportedly attracted other suspected gang members in the vicinity, who temporarily blocked the entrance to the palace and obstructed the movement of the convoy of the Governor.”

Ojelabi said a 60-year-old man identified as Tajudeen Yusuf was shot dead during the gun duel.

“Shortly afterwards, the suspected gang members reportedly departed the vicinity and, however on their way, they allegedly shot Tajudeen Yusuf at Itaolokan area of Osogbo.

“Upon receiving the information, the police immediately mobilised a patrol team to the scene, where the victim was found lying in a pool of blood. He was promptly rushed to the University Teaching Hospital, Osogbo, for medical attention. Unfortunately, he was pronounced dead by the doctors on duty.”

“The Command has commenced a full-scale investigation into the incident and intensified efforts to identify, apprehend and bring the fleeing suspects to justice.

“The Commissioner of Police (Election), Osun State Command, CP Samuel Etaifo, strongly condemns the dastardly act and assures members of the public that the Command will deploy all available resources to apprehend those responsible.

“The Command therefore urges anyone with useful information that could assist the investigation to promptly approach the nearest police station or contact the Command through its official channels. Members of the public are also advised to remain calm and refrain from taking the law into their own hands.”

The PPRO said the Police Command has commenced a full-scale investigation into the shooting incident.

Ojelabi said further updates on the incident would be provided as the investigation progresses.

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Adeleke Pledges Forgiveness for Adversaries, Dedicates Certificate of Return to Osun People

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Governor Ademola Adeleke said he has forgiven all those who may have offended him during the state elections and declared that he bears no grudge against political adversaries and opponents.

The governor who spoke while receiving a certificate of return from the electoral commission said “God has fought my battles for me and so I hold unto God throughout the duration of the political war and now that I have been re-elected”

While announcing a Five Hundred Million naira (N500m) education scholarship for victims of political violence, the governor commended the electoral body for acting professionally and within the dictates of the electoral act.

“I commend the electoral commission for doing a good job. You stood for democracy. I commend the security agencies, especially the Commissioner of Police for Election, the DSS. I would have loved the police to do more but we thank God the election day went violent free”, the governor submitted.

The INEC National Commissioner for Osun election, Prof Kunle Ajayi in his address commended the passion, the commitment and the activism of Osun voters whom he said defied electoral violence and trooped out to exercise their voting rights.

“Osun people are the heroes of the Saturday election. Active citizenry always makes a difference in the conduct of credible elections. Osun people proved to the world that democracy can work when the people are involved”, the INEC chief said

At a massively attended rally organised by the joint labour movement at Osogbo, the governor commiserated with families of the deceased and the injured, lamenting that “we remember Ezekiel Olapade, Aderogba Ajayi, Remi Abass, Kolade Eluyera, and the many other victims whose lives were cut short or permanently affected by electoral violence. To their families, I say: your pain has not been forgotten, and your loved ones will never be reduced to statistics.

“As part of our commitment to supporting affected families, the Adeleke family, through the Springtime Development Foundation, will provide automatic scholarships up to university level for the children and dependents of those who lost their lives”, the governor declared at a separate celebration rally organised by Osun labour movement.

“Today is not merely a day for the presentation of a Certificate of Return. It is a day of gratitude, reflection and, above all, appreciation for the people of Osun State who stood firm for democracy.

“This certificate does not belong to Ademola Adeleke alone. It belongs to the people of Osun State, the market men and women, workers, youths, traditional and religious leaders, and every citizen who demonstrates that our democracy cannot be intimidated, purchased or suppressed. I am deeply humbled by your courage and by the confidence you have renewed in me.

“But as we celebrate, we must remember those who paid a painful price during the electoral process. Citizens were injured, properties were destroyed, livelihoods disrupted and, most painfully, lives were lost.

“In addition, the Osun State Government will establish a ₦500 million Election Violence Victims Endowment Fund to provide relief and support to verified victims and families affected by the violence.

“A Verification and Relief Committee, chaired by the Speaker of the Osun State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Adewale Olumide Egbedun, will oversee the transparent identification and assessment of victims and the equitable distribution of relief.

“This is not a political fund. It is a humanitarian intervention. No eligible victim will be discriminated against on the basis of political affiliation, religion, ethnicity, gender or social status”, the governor told the thousands of public workers at the State Secretariat.

The Chairman of the Nigerian Labour Congress (NLC), Osun state chapter, Dr Christopher Arapasopo praised the labour movement on the re-election of Governor Adeleke and announced that in future legislative elections, Osun workers will still vote for Accord candidates.

“We defied attacks and intimidation to support the re-election of Governor Adeleke. We will never bow to those who want to enslave us. We will still vote Accord in future legislative elections”, the labour chief vowed.

Governor Adeleke later visited the Ataoja of Osogbo, the Timi of Ede and Senator Oluwole Alabi to present his certificate of returns for royal blessings.

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