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For Cancelling Wedding, Dismissed Policeman Kills Fiancée’s Mother
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An ex-policeman, Ogwu Christian, has been arrested for allegedly killing his fiancée’s mother, Veronica Obiejieogo, over the cancellation of their wedding date.
Christian reportedly shot the 45-year-old woman dead at short range while she was walking along a street in her village in Delta State. He thereafter fled the scene on a motorcycle.
City Round learnt that his wedding to Obiejieogo’s daughter, Blessing, had been fixed for December 27, 2018.
He had reportedly given Blessing money to buy clothes and some other items they would use on that day.
Few days to the ceremony, it was learnt that 39-year-old Christian noticed that Blessing was evasive as he no longer got updates on the wedding plans from her.
City Round gathered that when it became clear that the wedding would not hold as scheduled, Christian went to Blessing’s village in Otolokpo and killed her mother, whom he accused of cancelling the event.
He relocated to Port Harcourt, Rivers State, afterwards.
Our correspondent learnt that operatives of the Inspector-General of Police Intelligence Response Team went after Christian following a petition to the IGP, Mohammed Adamu, on the incident.
After months of tracking him, the suspect was arrested recently in Port Harcourt, while he allegedly was about to carry out a fraudulent deal.
The police said Christian, who was dismissed from the Force in 2005, had been parading himself as a senior officer to defraud members of the public and policemen seeking promotion.
In an interview with City Round during the week, the native of Afor in the Ndukwa East Local Government area of Delta State, confessed to the murder of his fiancée’s mother, adding that he believed the victim discouraged her daughter from marrying him.
He stated that he was frustrated and felt betrayed after he had planned big for the wedding.
He recalled, “I met Blessing at Ogwuachukwu Polytechnic, Delta State, where she was a student. She told me she was single and we started a relationship. In the process, she became pregnant but she aborted it. She said she could not have a child for me because I wasn’t known to her family.
“In April 2018, I went for a formal introduction and her family asked me to come back for a more elaborate ‘introduction ceremony.’ On September 7, 2018, I went back with my family for the ceremony and they gave us the list of things required for the marriage. In October, Blessing informed me that she was pregnant. We then fixed the wedding for December 27, 2018 and I gave her money to buy clothes that we would use for the marriage.
“On December 5, 2018, she called me and said she was on her way to Asaba, where I resided and after waiting for her for a long time, I called her, but she didn’t pick up her calls. One of her brothers known as Friday informed me that she had a miscarriage and was at the hospital in Asaba with her mother. I went to the hospital but I was not allowed to see Blessing and her mother.
“Some days later, I called her to know what was going on. She told me she was in her friend’s place in Asaba. I went there but I didn’t see her after waiting all day.
“On December 21, 2018, she told me on the phone that she had travelled to Lagos. I became very angry and met with one of my friends known as Steven.”
The ex-policeman explained that he rented a gun with two live cartridges from Steven for N10,000 and headed for his fiancée’s village on December 26, 2018 – the eve of the thwarted wedding.
He said shortly before he killed Obiejieogo, he took some alcohol and drugs to toughen up.
He added, “I went to a shop close to my fiancée’s house and bought a bottle of dry gin and Tramadol. I took them at once to get inspiration so that I would not change my mind. While I was at the shop, I sighted her mother and her younger brother walking towards my direction. I went to them, brought out my gun and shot the woman. I then zoomed off on a motorcycle and relocated to Rivers State.”
But a police source disclosed to our correspondent that the deceased discouraged her daughter from marrying Christian after she discovered he was a fraudster.
“The incident that got the deceased angry was when Christian defrauded two residents of her community, whom he had offered to help secure jobs at the Federal Road Safety Commission. He collected N25,000 each from the victims, but he didn’t get them the jobs as promised,” the source added.
Narrating his escapades as a fraudster, Christian said he joined a gang after he was dismissed from the Nigeria Police Force over a gun allegedly snatched away from him by some armed robbers at a checkpoint.
He said, “I attended training at the Police College, Ikeja, Lagos. I was posted to the Edo State Police Command, where I served for five years before I was dismissed. I joined a fraud syndicate operating in Asaba. The man who initiated me into the syndicate taught me all the tricks.
“I started using my police experience to defraud people. I adopted the rank of an Assistant Superintendent of Police and people started coming to me for assistance.
“Some policemen, who wanted promotion, paid me to help them because I told them I was working in the IGP’s office in Abuja. People who wanted to get recruited into the police also came to me and I usually collected N150,000 per person.
“Those applying for Cadet ASP, paid me N400,000 each. In some cases, I succeeded in helping them, using my connections.”
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PRIDE: The Plague That Drives, and Entombs the Proud
By Tolulope A. Adegoke PhD
Pride is the only fortress that grows weaker as its walls grow taller; for it is built not of stone, but of certitude—and certitude, unlike granite, crumbles under the weight of its own reflection. The humble do not build walls; they build bridges to the very truths that threaten to undo them, knowing that what is undone can be remade, but what is unmoved is already ruins waiting for time to catch up.
An Exposition on the Metamorphosis of Ego, the Architecture of Collapse, and the Antidote of Intellectual Humility
I. Introduction: The Paradox of the Ascending Trajectory
To speak of “Pride” in the contemporary lexicon is often to invoke a benign, even necessary, virtue—the self-esteem required for innovation, the national spirit required for sovereignty, or the corporate confidence required for market dominance. However, the etymological and philosophical roots of Pride (from the Old English prȳde, akin to the Old Norse prúðr, meaning “brave” or “splendid”) harbor a latent volatility. When pride solidifies from a state of graceful confidence into a rigid state of hubris, it ceases to be a virtue and becomes a plague. This is not a moralistic judgment; it is an epidemiological fact of organizational, national, and personal psychology.
This treatise posits that Pride, in its pathogenic form, is the singular most potent inhibitor of evolutionary adaptability. It is the “plague that drives the proud” not toward the pinnacle of success, but toward the precipice of irrelevance. The proud are driven by a compulsive need to validate a static self-image, rather than a dynamic process of becoming. To solve the grand challenges facing Peoples, Corporates, and Nations, we must first diagnose the symptomatology of this plague and administer the rigorous antidote of Intellectual Humility—a framework that embraces fallibility as the engine of resilience.
II. The Phenomenology of the Plague: Diagnosing the Symptoms
Before prescribing a cure, we must map the pathology. The plague of pride manifests not as overt arrogance alone, but often as subtle, systemic dysfunctions across three distinct strata: the Individual, the Collective, and the Institutional.
1. The Narcissism of Small Differences (The Individual Level)
At the personal level, pathological pride creates a “cognitive armor” that repels external data incongruent with the self-concept. This is the “Dunning-Kruger Effect” elevated to a lifestyle. The proud individual suffers from a deficit of meta-cognition—they do not know what they do not know.
· Exemplar: Consider the case of a seasoned CEO who refuses to adopt digital transformation because their legacy success validates their “gut instinct.” They confuse correlation (past success under specific conditions) with causation (their infallible decision-making). The plague drives them to reject junior analysts’ data, not because the data is flawed, but because acknowledging its validity would necessitate a reconstruction of their identity. The result is Blockbuster Video, Kodak, or Sears—mammoths frozen in the amber of their own past triumphs.
2. The Echo Chamber of Consensus (The Corporate Level)
In corporate structures, pride evolves into “Groupthink.” Here, the plague manifests as an institutional allergy to dissenting voices. The drive for cohesion overrides the imperative for veracity. When a corporation becomes proud of its culture to the exclusion of its market reality, it ceases to be a value-creating entity and becomes a value-preserving cult.
· Exemplar: The fall of Enron was not merely a fraud of accounting; it was a fraud of intellect. The corporate pride in being “the smartest guys in the room” created a toxic environment where questioning the viability of the business model was tantamount to treason. They were driven by the pride of complex financial instruments, ignoring the simple reality of cash flow. The plague drove them to fabricate reality because accepting the truth would have been an unbearable admission of mediocrity.
3. The Imperial Overreach (The National Level)
For nations, the plague of pride is manifest as “Strategic Narcissism.” This is the conviction that historical exceptionalism guarantees future dominance. Nations afflicted by this plague view geopolitical shifts not as challenges to adapt to, but as insults to their ordained status. This leads to a fatal misallocation of resources—over-investing in the preservation of outdated paradigms and under-investing in emergent ones.
· Exemplar: The decline of the Spanish Empire in the 17th century serves as a historical archetype. Flooded with New World silver, the Spanish Crown developed an arrogance that devalued domestic manufacturing and intellectual rigor. They were driven by the pride of being the Catholic Defender, ignoring the rising mercantile and scientific powers of Northern Europe. Their pride prevented the structural reforms necessary for solvency, resulting in repeated sovereign defaults. The plague drove them to prioritize image over infrastructure.
III. The Mechanics of the Plague: Why It Drives the Proud
The driving force of this plague is rooted in Cognitive Dissonance and the Sunk Cost Fallacy. The proud are not simply arrogant; they are trapped. Their identity is inextricably linked to their past decisions. To admit a flaw in the present is to retroactively invalidate the self. Therefore, the plague drives them to “double down.”
This mechanism operates through three distinct gears:
1. The Selectivity of Attention: The proud perceive only data that confirms their bias (Confirmation Bias). They view critics not as informants, but as adversaries.
2. The Denigration of the External: To protect the internal self, the proud must devalue the external world. Competitors are dismissed as “lucky” or “unethical.” New technologies are dismissed as “fads.”
3. The Acceleration of Inertia: The proud do not stop; they accelerate into the abyss. Because stopping would require introspection, they increase velocity, mistaking motion for progress.
This dynamic creates a “fatal feedback loop.” The more the external world changes, the more rigid the internal world becomes. The plague drives the proud not toward a destination, but toward a collision course with reality.
IV. The Antidote: Intellectual Humility as Systemic Immunity
If Pride is the plague, Intellectual Humility is the vaccine. Crucially, this is not the absence of confidence; it is the regulation of confidence. It is the meta-cognitive awareness that one’s current map is not the territory. It is the capacity to hold strong convictions weakly—to be decisive in action yet tentative in epistemology.
To solve the challenges across Peoples, Corporates, and Nations, we must operationalize Intellectual Humility through three pillars:
1. The Red Team Imperative (For Corporates and Nations)
Institutional pride is dismantled through structural dissent. Corporations and governments must institutionalize the “Red Team”—a group whose explicit job is to disprove the prevailing hypothesis. This moves critique from the personal realm (accusation) to the procedural realm (analysis).
· Application: The intelligence failures preceding the 2003 Iraq War (WMDs) were exacerbated by a lack of rigorous red-teaming. In contrast, the Cuban Missile Crisis was resolved successfully because President Kennedy actively sought dissenting voices against the aggressive advice of the Joint Chiefs. He humbled his administration’s pride by demanding alternative perspectives, preventing a nuclear catastrophe. For a corporation, this means promoting a “Devil’s Advocate” department that is rewarded for finding flaws in the business model, not for towing the line.
2. The “Pre-Mortem” Strategy (For Peoples and Leadership)
Psychologist Gary Klein introduced the “Pre-Mortem”—a technique where teams imagine that a project has failed spectacularly and work backward to determine the cause. This breaks the plague’s hold because it bypasses the defensive ego.
· Application: Before launching a new national policy or corporate merger, leaders should force the team to write a “history of the future” detailing the catastrophe. This exercise forces the proud to externalize their fears, revealing latent risks that the plague of optimism would otherwise suppress. For individuals, this is the practice of asking, “If I am wrong about this deeply held belief, what evidence would prove it?”
4. The Epistemological Audit (For the Self and Society)
We must audit our knowledge sources. The plague of pride thrives in informational vacuums.
· Application: For Peoples, this means actively consuming media that challenges their political orthodoxy without immediately dismissing it. For nations, it means engaging in diplomatic and scientific exchanges with ideological rivals, not to compromise values, but to understand the rationale of the “other.” Intellectual humility requires the discipline to articulate the opposing argument better than the opposition can articulate it themselves. If you cannot argue against your own position with eloquence, you do not truly understand it.
V. The Strategic Rebranding of Failure
The most potent weapon against the plague is the redefinition of failure. The proud view failure as an identity, an indictment. The humble view failure as data. For Corporates, the “Fail Fast” mantra is often a cliché, but its true depth lies in psychological safety—the assurance that admitting a mistake will not result in retribution. For Nations, this requires a shift from “never apologize” to “intelligent accountability.” A nation that admits a strategic error (e.g., foreign policy missteps) is not weak; it is strategically agile. It disarms the plague by refusing to let the past dictate the future.
VI. The Manifesto of the Empowered Humble
To transcend the plague, we must adopt a new manifesto for the 21st century:
· We reject the tyranny of the “Ego-System” and embrace the “Eco-System” of knowledge, recognizing that intelligence is distributed, not centralized.
· We practice the “Pause.” Before reacting defensively to criticism, we pause to decode the signal from the noise.
· We prioritize “Learning Velocity” over “Status Quo Maintenance.” The speed at which we can unlearn outdated data and relearn new paradigms is the new competitive advantage.
VII. Conclusion: The Ascent of the Humble
Pride, the plague, drives the proud toward isolation and obsolescence. It creates a brittle intelligence that shatters under pressure. Conversely, Intellectual Humility drives the wise toward resilience and relevance. It creates an anti-fragile intelligence that grows stronger with the shocks of new data.
For Peoples, the dissolution of pride allows for the reconstruction of fractured societies through the mutual recognition of shared fallibility. For Corporates, it ensures longevity beyond the tenure of a single visionary. For Nations, it ensures security not through belligerence, but through the soft power of adaptability and the hard power of strategic self-correction.
The proud are driven by a need to be right. The humble are driven by a need to get it right. One is a static pose; the other is a dynamic process. In the volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous (VUCA) world, the only sustainable trajectory is the one that accepts that the map must constantly be redrawn. The plague ends when we realize that we are not the cartographers of certainty, but the humble navigators of an ever-shifting sea. Let us, therefore, choose to be driven not by the arrogance of the known, but by the humility of the seeker.
Dr. Tolulope A. Adegoke, AMBP-UN is a globally recognized scholar-practitioner and thought leader at the nexus of security, governance, and strategic leadership. His mission is dedicated to advancing ethical governance, strategic human capital development, resilient nation building, and global peace. He can be reached via: tolulopeadegoke01@gmail.com, globalstageimpacts@gmail.com
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Hardship: Labour Unions Call for Review of N70k Minimum Wage
Labour leaders have called for an urgent review of Nigeria’s N70,000 national minimum wage, saying the current wage no longer reflects the economic realities facing workers amid rising inflation and the cost of living.
The call was made at the 2026 Nigeria Rights of Workers Summit in Birnin Kebbi, Kebbi State, organised to commemorate 88 years of legally recognised trade unionism in Nigeria.
The summit, themed “The Rights of Workers: Decent Work and a Just Economy in Nigeria,” brought together labour leaders, policymakers, workers, employers, civil society organisations and representatives of the National Industrial Court.
Speaking on behalf of the President of the Nigeria Labour Congress, Joe Ajaero, the NLC Deputy President, Amba, identified the minimum wage as one of the major issues confronting Nigerian workers.
He said the N70,000 minimum wage had become inadequate in the face of the increasing cost of goods and services and called for fresh negotiations with the Federal and State governments.
“The current N70,000 minimum wage can no longer adequately respond to the realities confronting Nigerian workers, particularly with the rising cost of living.”
According to him, the expiration of the existing wage arrangement makes renewed discussions necessary to establish a wage that better reflects prevailing economic conditions.
Former President of the Nigeria Labour Congress, Ayuba Wabba, said the welfare of workers should not be viewed solely through the size of their pay packets.
He argued that decent work must also guarantee workers’ rights, social protection and meaningful engagement between labour, employers and government.
“Decent work is not only about wages. It is also about workers’ rights, social protection and meaningful social dialogue between workers, employers and government.”
The Convener of the summit and Executive Director of Call a Lawyer, Ekpa Stanley, said the 88th anniversary of trade unionism provided an opportunity to assess the progress made by Nigerian workers and identify areas requiring urgent attention.
He said the objective should be to ensure that the principles of decent work translate into tangible improvements in workers’ lives.
Meanwhile, Kebbi State Governor, Nasir Idris, assured workers that the State government would implement any new national minimum wage agreed upon at the federal level.
“Whatever is agreed upon at the national level on the minimum wage, Kebbi State will implement,” the governor said.
Idris also pledged to advocate for improved wages during discussions at the Nigeria Governors’ Forum, while commending civil servants for their contributions to governance and national development.
The summit also examined other challenges confronting workers, including workplace safety, discrimination, inflation and the protection of casual and other non-traditional workers.
As Nigeria marks 88 years of legally recognised trade unionism, labour leaders say the anniversary should serve as a renewed call for policies that guarantee fair compensation and better working conditions for workers.
They maintained that without a wage structure that keeps pace with economic realities, the gains of decades of workers’ organisation and collective bargaining risk being undermined.
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Enugu Forest Guard Rescues Kidnap Victim, Arrests Suspects
The Enugu State Forest Guard (ENSFG) has recorded major operational successes in separate intelligence-led security operations across Nsukka and Uzo-Uwani local government areas, resulting in the rescue of a kidnap victim, the arrest of three suspected criminal operatives, the recovery of stolen property, and the successful foiling of another attempted kidnapping, National Association of Online Security News Publishers, NAOSNP can report.
In Nsukka Local Government Area, operatives of the Enugu State Forest Guard, working jointly with members of the local hunters’ association, successfully rescued Mrs. Asadu Calistar of Opkuje Community, who was abducted by suspected kidnappers while working on her farm with her children along the Anuka Road axis.
Acting swiftly on credible intelligence, the joint security team launched a coordinated search-and-rescue operation and engaged the kidnappers in an exchange of gunfire. The victim was rescued unharmed, one suspected kidnapper was arrested, while three others fled into the forest. The victim and the suspect have been handed over to the Nigeria Police Force for further investigation, while bush-combing operations continue to apprehend the fleeing suspects.
In a separate operation in Uzo-Uwani Local Government Area, operatives of the Ogboli Forest Guard, in collaboration with the Ogurugu and Ojjor Neighbourhood Watch groups, arrested Mr. Ugbedeojo John and Mr. Chidi Adaji, who were allegedly conveying two dismantled stolen motorcycles.
Preliminary investigation revealed that the motorcycles had been dismantled, with the engines and several major components allegedly sold at Adani, while the remaining parts were recovered during the operation. The recovered exhibits were later identified by their owner, Mr. Edwin Dibiagu. The suspects and recovered exhibits have been handed over to the Nigeria Police Force for further investigation and necessary legal action, while efforts continue to identify and apprehend other members of the suspected criminal network.
Later the same day, at about 1820 hours, the Enugu State Forest Guard successfully foiled an attempted kidnapping along the Opi–Agu-Agu–Ekwegbe–Agu-Ukehe (Ugwuogo) Road in Nsukka Local Government Area.
Suspected armed kidnappers reportedly emerged from the adjoining bush at Opi-Uno and opened fire on a passing Toyota Sienna vehicle and other road users in an apparent attempt to force vehicles to stop for abduction. Responding promptly to the distress call, operatives of the Enugu State Forest Guard Headquarters Special Squad, working alongside the Distress Response Squad (DRS) of the Nigeria Police Force, engaged the armed suspects in a gun battle, forcing them to abandon their operation and flee into the surrounding forest.
Security operatives recovered several expended 7.62mm calibre cartridge cases believed to have been fired from AK-pattern rifles. No person was kidnapped during the attempted attack, and joint pursuit operations by the Nsukka Forest Guard Command and Ezimo Sector are ongoing to apprehend the fleeing suspects.
The Enugu State Forest Guard commends the courage, professionalism, and vigilance of its personnel, the Nigeria Police Force, local hunters, and neighbourhood watch groups whose continued collaboration has significantly strengthened the fight against kidnapping and other violent crimes across the State.
The Command reassures residents that intelligence-led operations and proactive security patrols will continue across Enugu State to deny criminals safe havens and protect lives and property. Members of the public are encouraged to remain vigilant and continue providing timely and credible information to security agencies.
The Enugu State Forest Guard remains steadfast in its commitment to working with all security agencies and community stakeholders to ensure lasting peace, security, and public safety throughout Enugu State.






