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Why It’s Difficult for Men to Reject Sex Advances from Women
By Eric Elezuo
Ever wondered what Joseph went through before he could run away from the sex advances from the beautiful wife of Portiphar. A lot. And mark my words, Joseph raqn away. He didn’t stand to reject. He abandoned his cloth and fled. So rejecting a woman’s sex advances, especially when nakedness is bared, is next to impossibility.
This is even proved because the way to a man’s heart is not only through his stomach but anything good. While a woman may wait to develop a feeling before having sex with a man i.e have a reason to have sex, the man only need a space. His feelings are ever developed once he sights a woman. So, he is rearing to go when the nakedness is exposed.
If you as a man must say no to a woman’s sex advances, make sure you do not follow her to a secluded place. Once in a hidden place, dem no born your JT make e no rise.
Sex to woman is an assignment, and is undertaken with deep emotion (don’t ask me about prostitutes and hook up girls ooo), but sex to a man is pure fun, and any space provided, will ensure the needful is done.
That does not, in any way mean that a man cannot have sex out of pure love, but…
Moreover, a woman sees a man, who turns down her sex advances as a weakling, incapable or worse, and no man likes to be seen as that.
However, discipline, self control and the hard side of fidelity can come to a man’s rescue when a woman bares it all. This is provided he runs away as quickly as possible and as fast as his legs can carry him. No one proves righteousness with the nakedness of a desperate woman.
What do you think?
By Eric Elezuo
A security expect and Chief Executive Officer, Safety Signatures Limited, Dr. Cynthia Gregg, has identified the need for individuals to have intimidate and dominion over their fellow man as one of the reasons for the proliferation of small arms and light weapons in the Nigerian Civil space, thereby resulting in insecurity and unsafe habitation.
Gregg made the observation while participating as a panelist during the panel session of the 2023 National Security Conference of the National Association of Online Security News Publishers (NAOSNP), on Thursday at the Civic Centre, Lagos.
The security practitioner noted that the issue of small arms and light weapons in the hands of non state actors, has become a major concern to all and sundry as killings abound, affecting both men in uniform and their civilian counterparts in the country today.
“We have noticed that in our society today, the person who carries the weapon is the most feared, and so because everyone wants to be feared, wants to dominate and intimidate the other person, they go to any length to acquire illegal weapons. That explains why when a robber encounters someone, the first thing they do is brandish a weapon or unleash some brutality to subdue their victim. It is the norm, unfortunately,” she said.
She further called on the public to encourage and help the law enforcement agencies to carry out their duties by saying something when they see something, and advocated community engagement to deal with challenges of proliferation of lethal weapons in the hands of non state actors.
Again, Gregg lauded the efforts of NAOSNP in using its platform to propagate safety and security through fruitful engagements with relevant institutions and reportage of credible security stories as well as advocacy through its enviable conferences.
The Lagos State Police Command had said the autopsy conducted on Ilerioluwa Aloba, popularly known as Mohbad, had been concluded.
The state Police Public Relations Officer, Benjamin Hundeyin, confirmed this to The Punch during a telephone conversation on Thursday.
He said, “Autopsy has been concluded. Awaiting results.”
Earlier on, while responding to an enquiry by the paper concerning arrests made by the police in connection with the late singer’s death, Hundeyin said, “I can’t answer questions on the arrests yet because I don’t have that update. However, the nurse is in our custody; I can confirm that.”
The body of the late singer, Ilerioluwa Oladimeji Aloba, popularly known as Mohbad, has been exhumed for autopsy.
Lagos State Police spokesperson, SP Benjamin Hundeyin, disclosed the development via his X handle on Thursday.
The Lagos Police image maker wrote: “Exhumation completed. Autopsy to commence. #JusticeForMohad #Justice4Mohbad.”
