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Fact for Living: The Secret of Listening
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By Henry Ukazu
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply”– Stephen R. Covey
Greetings Friends,
Today’s article will take a different route because it will be structured to empower any rational mind to think out of the box. One of the greatest force in life is love. There’s an imaginary strength that comes when we truly love. If you have truly loved, you’ll agree with me that you’ll not only care how your partner or friend feel, you’ll also listen to them.
I once read a book by Gary Chapman “The five love language Love language” where the author beautifully wrote about the five love languages (Words affirmation, physical touch, gift, services and time). When you truly care, you’ll apply all this love languages to your partner, friend, work or whatever you are doing. I choose to use love to buttress the important of listening because in whatever you do in life, if you don’t love it, you won’t give it your time and listening is one of the components of loving.
There are so many things we are stand to gain when we listen to people. One of the greatest things you can do for anyone is to listen to them. It should be noted that listening comes with respect. Whether you are in the cooperate world, self employed (entrepreneur), Non Government Organization or even faith based organization, you are bound to listen to your audience because that is the best way to communicate with them while serving them.
Listening is a choice, you decide to listen to what you like. It is really hard sitting or even standing up listening to people you don’t value. When you listen to podcast or programs of interest, you select music, talks or even comedy of interest that appeals to you. In this digital age, experience has taught me to pay attention to what really matters to me. In fact, unless I am sacrificing my time for a worthy cause, if it’s not taking me to the next level and if it doesn’t involve money, it doesn’t worth my time.
In any industry you are in, you need to practice good listening skills. Are you seeking for a job, or currently working, you need a good listening skill to succeed in a job environment.
With this skill, you can navigate the politics of the job environment. Even a leader needs this skill the most. I have always opine that one of the great art of a leader is the ability to listen and learn. This is because you get more ideas when you listen to your followers.
Listening gives you ability to hear (feedback) what others feel about your work. According to Bill Gates “your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning”.
During the course of this article, we shall be discussing the different styles of listening and how we can use effective listening to enhance our business or opportunity of interest.
Practice active listening: The most important gift you can give to a public speaker is your ears. When you listen to someone, you are not only giving the person your time, you are also learning more about the person. There’s a saying you can learn more about a person by what he/she does than what he/she says. Practicing active listening is a very good way to learn and be engaged. In communication, what is important is not what is being said, but what is not being said, therein, lies the message. When you practice active listening, you hear the unspoken language from the other person in addition to being engaged.
According to G.K. Chesterton “there’s a lot of difference between hearing and listening.” This is because hearing isn’t necessarily listening. This is because you can hear someone but not present at the same time. Active listening makes you to be present. You may have heard of the saying, the joy of life is not happy you are, but how happy someone can because of you. Everyone loves to be listened and loved. In my book Design Your Destiny – Actualizing Your Birthright To Success, specifically on page 111, I wrote about the four levels of gratitude (Appreciation, administration, approval and attention). In order to understand this teachings you must practice active listening to understand the unspoken words inherent in such deeds.
Eye Contact: A great communicator uses eye contact to deliver his/her message. One of the most valuable ways a public speaker communicate with his/she audience is by using eye contact. With eye contact, you can tell if your audience is listening or feeling bored.
Sometimes you hear what the person is saying when you look directly in the eyes of the person, sometimes, maintaining a visible presence by looking over the head audience gives them the desired space they need. This is because some people don’t feel comfortable when they have direct eye contact. Eye contact also goes with the body language of the speaker. In communication, sometimes, somethings are better felt than spoken.
Don’t interrupt the speaker: A good way to know a great speaker is by looking how he/she pitches his/point or message. Interrupting a speaker can ruin the flow of information. That is why sometimes, it is good to reserve questions towards at the end of any presentation.
Listen without judgment: –: In communication, most times, people listen with the intent to respond as opposed to understanding. This normally plays out most times in marriage. In law, a good to way to apply justice is by listening to the other side. In applying this knowledge, the judge normally use Audi alteram partem, a Latin phrase meaning “listen to the other side”, or “let the other side be heard as well”. It is the principle that no person should be judged without a fair hearing in which each party is given the opportunity to respond to the evidence against them.
Meditation: Mediation is a form of listening. According to Thomas Carlyle, “Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves together”. Meditation is truly a great form of listening. According to Wayne Dyer, an inspirational author, meditation is simply the act of being quiet with yourself and shutting the constant monologue that fills the inner space.
Meditation helps in self discovering. You learn more about yourself when you listen to your inner self as opposed to what other people think of you. There are many benefits that comes with meditation. Examples include: it reduces stress, helps you to focus very well, it reduces anxiety, it gives you better memory and enhances creativity.
In conclusion, a good listening skill if properly utilized will set you on a good path that will set you before leaders, kings and Heads of Industries if properly applied.
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with New York City Department of Correction as the legal Coordinator. He’s the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny – Actualizing Your Birthright To Success.
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Africa As the Safe Haven of the World: Why Early Investors Should Move Now
By Tolulope A. Adegoke
“The world is waking up to a truth Africa has always known: that the continent which gave humanity its first steps is not the world’s last frontier, but its next foundation. Those who arrive early will not merely witness the future—they will help build it.” – Tolulope A. Adegoke, PhD
The World Is Changing. Africa Is Ready.
For decades, global investors treated Africa as a frontier market—promising, perhaps, but peripheral to the serious business of wealth preservation. That assumption is now being tested by forces far beyond the continent’s control.
Geopolitical fragmentation. Supply-chain realignment. Volatile traditional markets. Aging populations across the developed world. In this environment, capital is searching for something increasingly rare: stability combined with growth.
Africa is answering that call.
With projected GDP growth of 4.2% in 2026—outpacing much of the developed world—and a demographic dividend that will shape the global economy for the next fifty years, the continent is no longer a peripheral story. It is becoming a structural safe haven for long-horizon capital. And for investors who move early, the window of opportunity is narrowing.
The Numbers Behind the Narrative
The conventional risk story about Africa is being dismantled by hard data.
According to the African Development Bank’s 2026 African Economic Outlook, the continent recorded average GDP growth of 4.4% in 2025, with twenty-two economies posting rates above 5%. For 2026, growth is projected to moderate only slightly to 4.2%, before rebounding to 4.4% in 2027. This is not a commodity boom. It is broad-based, diversified resilience.
Meanwhile, traditional safe-haven assets face unprecedented pressures. Global conflicts—from the Middle East to Ukraine—have forced institutional investors to rethink how they assess risk. Africa’s position in global portfolios is being reevaluated as a result.
Zain Latif, founder of TLG Capital, put it plainly in a 2026 Bloomberg interview: sectors with steady, defensive returns across Africa are drawing interest precisely because global volatility is rising. His firm, backed by Bpifrance and the International Finance Corporation, reports that focusing on defensive sectors across the continent offers steady returns of approximately 12%—a yield that is increasingly difficult to replicate in mature markets without comparable or greater risk.
The Henley & Partners 2026 Global Investment Risk Index confirms the shift. The number of African nations ranked among the world’s top 100 for investment safety rose from three to nine, with Mauritius leading at 61st globally, followed by Tanzania and Botswana. Seychelles, Cape Verde, Namibia, South Africa, and Morocco also entered the rankings. These nations share common characteristics: institutional stability, economic openness, industrial diversification, and reduced dependence on primary commodities.
The trend line is clear. Africa’s investment environment is improving structurally, not cyclically.
A Young Continent in an Aging World
No discussion of Africa’s safe-haven status is complete without addressing its most profound structural advantage: demography.
While much of the developed world confronts aging populations, shrinking workforces, and unsustainable pension obligations, Africa stands as the world’s youngest continent. Its population is projected to reach 2.5 billion by 2050, with thirty-two of the world’s forty-four least developed nations located on the continent.
This demographic profile represents far more than a labor pool. It constitutes an expanding consumer market, a growing tax base, and a dynamic engine of entrepreneurship.
For early investors, this translates into tangible sectoral opportunities. Africa’s venture capital ecosystem demonstrated notable resilience in 2025, with startup funding rising 25% to just over $4 billion, even as global venture capital tightened. Unlike the global trend of chasing artificial intelligence abstractions, African startups are focused on solving real-world problems—fintech, clean technology, health technology, and logistics—sectors that generate durable revenue and address fundamental market needs.
Tokunboh Ishmael, co-founder of Alethea Capital, notes that the era of “blitzscaling” has given way to a focus on fundamentally driven, resilient growth that endures through currency volatility and geopolitical shocks. This maturation is precisely what long-term institutional investors should seek.
The demographic thesis also underpins domestic capital formation. African pension funds, facing duration mismatches and insufficient returns from traditional fixed-income products, are increasingly allocating to alternative asset classes, including private equity and venture capital. This growing domestic institutional base provides a stabilizing counterweight to foreign capital flows, reducing the volatility that historically characterized emerging-market investment cycles.
The Resource Endowment: Critical Minerals and Supply Security
The Middle East conflict has exposed the costs of over-reliance on concentrated supply chains for essential commodities. Africa’s resource endowment is consequently being revalued by strategic investors.
Foreign direct investment inflows to Africa reached approximately $70 billion in 2025—the third-highest level since 1990 and roughly one-third above the continent’s long-term average. While headline figures declined from the exceptional $94 billion recorded in 2024, the underlying trend is more significant: the number of announced greenfield projects increased even as their average value fell, indicating broader, more diversified engagement rather than reliance on a handful of mega-deals.
The strategic logic is straightforward. Parts of Africa hold major reserves of minerals essential for renewable energy technologies, battery manufacturing, and advanced industrial production—copper, cobalt, lithium, manganese, graphite, and rare earth elements. As the United States and its allies accelerate efforts to diversify critical mineral supply chains away from concentrated sources, Africa has become a focal point of strategic investment.
California’s KoBold Metals, backed by prominent investors, unveiled what it termed the world’s largest lithium exploration campaign in the Democratic Republic of Congo in April 2026. The US government-backed Orion Critical Mineral Consortium has signed preliminary agreements to acquire stakes in Congolese copper mines and has emerged as a favored candidate for a major nickel project in Tanzania.
However, a note of analytical discipline is warranted. Africa’s current share of global rare-earth production remains below 2%, concentrated primarily in Madagascar and Nigeria. The narrative of Africa as a critical minerals panacea requires nuance: the continent’s influence is substantial in specific commodities—cobalt, bauxite, platinum—but these are concentrated in a small number of jurisdictions. The investment opportunity lies not in aggregate claims but in targeted exposure to specific projects and jurisdictions where governance, infrastructure, and commercial viability align.
Early investors who conduct rigorous, project-level due diligence will capture disproportionate value as supply-chain diversification accelerates.
Energy and Infrastructure: The Foundation of Transformation
Energy access remains Africa’s most pressing developmental challenge and, simultaneously, its most significant investment opportunity.
More than 640 million Africans lack electricity, with access rates hovering just above 40%—the lowest in the world. Per capita consumption in Sub-Saharan Africa excluding South Africa is approximately 180 kWh, compared with roughly 13,000 kWh in the United States and 6,500 kWh in Europe. This deficit is not merely a humanitarian concern; it is a market signal of extraordinary magnitude.
The investment pipeline reflects this reality. Announced green hydrogen projects across sixteen African countries total approximately $293 billion, though most remain at early or emerging stages and have not reached final investment decision. While green hydrogen exports have captured headlines, a more grounded assessment suggests that universal electrification and industrial development should take precedence in the near term. A 2026 study published in the journal Sustainability argues that Africa would be better served by prioritizing domestic electrification through renewable energy, with hydrogen exports as a longer-term prospect.
For investors, this implies that distributed renewable energy, grid infrastructure, and off-grid solutions offer more immediate and bankable opportunities than large-scale export-oriented mega-projects.
The infrastructure gap is also being addressed by major bilateral and multilateral commitments. China alone committed $33.5 billion to Africa in the first half of 2026 under its Belt and Road Initiative—the highest six-month total on record—with Ethiopia and Egypt as primary beneficiaries. In energy, Canada’s Zimar Group signed a $1.9 billion agreement with Niger to build an oil refinery and petrochemical complex, while TotalEnergies and its partners plan to invest $10 billion in Angola’s oil sector over five years.
These flows are not merely charitable. They represent commercial positioning by sophisticated actors who recognize that Africa’s infrastructure deficit is, from an investment perspective, a generational opportunity.
The Venture Capital and Private Equity Frontier
For investors seeking exposure to Africa’s growth story beyond extractives and infrastructure, the continent’s venture capital and private equity ecosystem offers a compelling entry point.
The $4 billion deployed into African startups in 2025—a 25% increase year-on-year—was concentrated in four markets: Kenya, South Africa, Egypt, and Nigeria, which collectively captured 72% of total funding. The sectoral composition is instructive: fintech dominated with 31% of Egyptian startup investment, followed by e-commerce at 24% and enterprise services at 16%. These are sectors that generate recurring revenue, leverage digital distribution, and address large underserved markets.
The maturation of African venture capital is reflected in the growing participation of domestic investors, who accounted for 45% of funding in 2025, compared with 26% from the United States. This shift is not merely symbolic; it indicates the development of local expertise, networks, and exit pathways that reduce the information asymmetries historically faced by foreign investors. For early entrants, partnering with established local managers offers a means of accessing deal flow while mitigating execution risk.
The private equity landscape more broadly is characterized by a focus on defensive sectors—healthcare, education, financial services, and consumer staples—that offer steady returns irrespective of commodity cycles. TLG Capital’s reported 12% returns from defensive-sector strategies across Africa suggest that risk-adjusted returns in these segments are competitive with, and often superior to, comparable strategies in developed markets. The key differentiator is active management and local presence; passive exposure to African equities remains volatile, but direct or co-invested positions in well-managed businesses serving growing consumer markets offer a fundamentally different risk-return profile.
Navigating the Risks: An Honest Assessment
Intellectual honesty demands acknowledgment of the challenges that persist.
Inflation across the continent is projected to remain elevated at 10.4% in 2026, posing persistent challenges to macroeconomic stability and eroding household purchasing power. Currency volatility remains a significant concern, particularly for investors whose liabilities are denominated in hard currencies. Infrastructure deficits—not only in power but also in transport, logistics, and digital connectivity—continue to raise operating costs and constrain market integration.
Governance and political risk vary enormously across the continent’s fifty-four nations. The Henley & Partners rankings illustrate this dispersion: while Mauritius, Tanzania, and Botswana rank favorably, Nigeria—despite being one of the continent’s largest economies—ranks poorly due to high inflation, foreign exchange volatility, and security concerns. South Africa’s growth remains subdued at 2.1% in 2026, weighed down by weak mining and agricultural output and higher energy costs.
These disparities underscore a critical point: Africa is not a single investment thesis but a collection of differentiated opportunities requiring jurisdiction-specific and sector-specific analysis.
The safe-haven characterization, therefore, must be understood in relative rather than absolute terms. Africa offers diversification benefits, demographic tailwinds, and resource endowments that are increasingly scarce globally. It does not offer the institutional predictability of Switzerland or the liquidity of United States Treasuries. The appropriate framing is that Africa provides a strategic complement to traditional safe-haven allocations—a source of growth and resilience that is uncorrelated with the geopolitical and fiscal risks concentrated in the Northern Hemisphere.
Why Waiting Is Not a Strategy
The central argument for early investment is not merely that Africa’s growth trajectory is positive, but that the terms of entry are changing.
As the continent’s investment narrative matures, valuations will adjust. The presence of sophisticated institutional investors—JPMorgan Chase, Bpifrance, the International Finance Corporation, and a growing array of sovereign wealth funds and family offices—signals that the informational advantage once enjoyed by a small cadre of Africa-focused specialists is eroding.
JPMorgan’s senior country officer for Sub-Saharan Africa, Kevin Latter, has stated plainly: “The Africa growth opportunity is now large enough to matter to global investors. The substantial capital required to support this growth comes precisely at the time that global capital is searching for new sources of growth.”
This confluence of capital demand and global search for yield creates a classic early-mover dynamic. Investors who establish positions now—whether through direct investments, fund commitments, or strategic partnerships—will benefit from access to deal flow, relationship capital, and pricing that will be unavailable once the continent’s safe-haven status becomes consensus.
The African Development Bank’s projection of 4.2% growth in 2026 and 4.4% in 2027 may appear modest by the standards of historical emerging-market booms, but in a world of 1-2% growth in advanced economies, the differential is substantial and compounding.
Moreover, the sectors that will define Africa’s next decade—renewable energy, digital infrastructure, critical minerals processing, healthcare, and financial inclusion—are precisely those where early capital can shape market structure. First-movers in these sectors will not merely capture returns; they will influence the regulatory and commercial frameworks within which later entrants must operate.
Conclusion: A Strategic Allocation, Not a Speculative Bet
Africa’s emergence as a safe haven is not a claim that the continent is devoid of risk. It is a claim that the risk-return calculus has shifted decisively.
The combination of demographic expansion, resource endowment, improving governance in a critical mass of nations, and a global environment in which supply-chain diversification and non-correlated growth are at a premium creates a compelling case for strategic allocation.
For institutional investors, family offices, and high-net-worth individuals with a long-term horizon, the question is no longer whether to invest in Africa, but how to construct exposure that balances opportunity with prudence.
The answer lies in diversified approaches: a blend of private equity and venture capital in defensive and growth sectors, targeted infrastructure and energy investments with strong counterparties, and selective exposure to critical minerals projects with rigorous governance and off-take arrangements.
The window for early entry is narrowing. Capital flows are accelerating. The institutional infrastructure is maturing. The narrative is shifting from “frontier” to “opportunity.”
Those who act with discipline and local insight now will secure their position in what is increasingly recognized as the world’s most consequential growth market—and, for the patient and discerning investor, its most promising safe haven.
Dr. Tolulope A. Adegoke, AMBP-UN, is a globally recognized scholar-practitioner and thought leader at the nexus of security, governance, and strategic leadership. His mission is dedicated to advancing ethical governance, strategic human capital development, resilient nation-building, and global peace. He bridges the worlds of academic rigor and practical application, contributing to leadership discourse at the highest levels of policy and practice. He can be reached via: tolulopeadegoke01@gmail.com, globalstageimpacts@gmail.com
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Food for Living: Find Your Calling
By Henry Ukazu
Dear Destiny Friends,
If you are asked, what’s your calling, what will be your response? If you are asked what your purpose on earth is, what will be your response? If you are asked who you are, what would be your response? These, no doubt, are interesting questions to decipher one’s calling.
Finding one’s calling is the best thing that can happen to anyone. According to one of my most cherished mentors, Dr. Yomi Garnett, the day you find your purpose is the day you become a millionaire. I couldn’t agree more with this saying because it is nothing but the gospel truth. This is because the best thing that can happen to anyone is knowing their calling.
According to Mark Twain, “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born, and the day you find out why. This is a fact. It’s quite unfortunate that many people are just existing as opposed to living. We were not created to exist, we were created to fill a vacuum, and we can only make an impact if we are intentionally answering our call.
Let’s circle back to the question I asked at the beginning of this article, what’s your calling? To answer this question, I would like you to approach it from a spiritual perspective. At creation, God called us to be something in the world, that’s why he gave us gifts and talents and told us to be fruitful and multiply.
Just like we all have names that our parents, friends, children, mentors, etc. call us. These names are reflections of what we mean to them or how they perceive us. Names are symbolic and have deep meanings if we apply reasoning to them. So, if we can answer the names we are called to earth, how about answering the name God called us at birth. I believe that’s the most important call or name we need to answer as human beings. When we answer the name God gave to us, the world will begin to respond to what we say because we have answered the mother’s call.
Why do I say this? Your purpose was made in heaven, but your calling is meant to be fulfilled on earth. It’s sad to see people answering different names they are not called. When God created you, there’s something he had in mind for you to accomplish or solve on earth, but it’s unfortunate that, due to life’s vicissitudes, some of us derail from the path God destined for us, and hence that’s the reason many of struggle because we are not working in the direction and pathway God designed for us to tread.
It should be known that your calling was not a conference call; the call was personal. If God wanted anyone to know your calling or purpose, he would have revealed it to anyone he wants, but he chose to reveal it to you, so the onus is on you to focus on it, follow it religiously and ultimately fulfill it because that’s the only way you can get fulfillment.
I also asked, what’s your purpose? Your purpose is the reason why you do whatever you are doing. In this context, your purpose is your why. According to Dr. Myles Munroe, “When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable.” Your purpose is the reason why you applied for a job, married your partner, started an NGO, a business, relocated/travelled, started school, or even wrote a book. There’s always a reason why we do something. That reason is the inspiration and motivation we need to forge when everything else fails.
Again, I ask you what’s your purpose? If you can’t figure out your purpose, I will strongly advise you to go to your creator (God) and ask him, what’s your purpose because he’s the person that created you. When people desire different interests in different majors, skills, profession, vocation, etc., it’s simply because someone puts the desire and interest inside them.
To understand how purpose works, there’s no problem on earth without a solution. The only problem without a solution is the problem the person with the solution hasn’t arrived.
Let me share a practical example on purpose. There was a story of an old man whose car (Ford) broke down in the middle of the road, all efforts to fix the car proved abortive. An old man was passing by and saw this man struggling to fix the car, he asked him, “What’s the problem?” The old man said, well, my car has refused to start. The stranger told the man to give a minute. The man initially refused saying who is this old man to fix what I have been working on for hours.
On second thought, he said, what will I lose if I give him a chance. He decided to listen to the old man who told him to give me a minute to check out the car. This stranger didn’t do much, he just touched a particular side of the engine and told the old man to start the car, and immediately the car cranked back to her life. The man was surprised and asked him, who are you? ” The stranger said, “I am Henry Ford, the owner of Ford Motors.
The moral of this story is, Henry Ford, the founder of Ford motors, knows his car more than everyone. So, if a mere mortal can know much, how much about the creator who will not know about our purpose?
When you find your purpose, you find your why, but when you find your why you must find your purpose.
The final question I asked: “Who are you? To answer these questions, I need you to focus on the inmate quality you are blessed with as opposed to what people think about you. What people think about you is your reputation, but who you are is your character. Some people associate titles to who they are. I think that’s the wrong interpretation. One might be a doctor, lawyer, Chief Operating Officer, professor, or even the governor or president, but that doesn’t make them good people with good traits, qualities, values and charismatic inmate abilities.
To lead one must have empathy, compassion, and heart of service. It is through these traits; one can see who a person really is and not the cloth of title they are showing the world.
So, to find one’s calling, here’s my sample suggestion: ask your creator (God), inquire what makes you happy, what you love to do, what do people compliment you on, what do you do with relative ease if you are woken from sleep? What is one thing you can do for free?
In conclusion, finding one’s calling is the best thing that can happen to anyone. The day you find your calling is the day you will begin to live your best life because you will begin to bless the world with your calling.
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer, and author of Design Your Destiny- Actualizing Your Birthright to Success, Unleash Your Destiny, and The Six Pillars of Success. He can be reached via info@gloemi.com
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Food for Living: The Relationship Between Process and Failure
By Henry Ukazu
Dear Destiny Friends,
One of life’s most misunderstood concepts is the relationship between process and failure. When some people fail, they think they have done something wrong, but it could be that the person is experiencing the process, or their season has not yet come.
To understand this concept, let’s explain the two terms. A process is a series of structured actions, steps, or decisions taken in a specific order to transform input into a desired output or goal. Here are the key elements of a process
- Inputs: The raw materials, data, or starting requirements (such as ingredients, customer requests, or raw code).
- Activities/Steps: The specific tasks or decisions performed by people, tools, or machines.
- Trigger: An event or demand that kicks off the process (like submitting an order or launching an app).
- Output: The result, product, or delivered service.
- Owner: The person or role accountable for the outcome.
Failure, on the other hand, is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable, required, or intended objective. According to the Cambridge Dictionary, failure can result from any of the following:
- Omission or Neglect: Failing to perform an action that was promised, owed, or expected (such as a failure to pay on time or submit a report).
- System or Organ Malfunction: A situation where a machine, computer, engine, or bodily organ stops working properly (such as engine failure or kidney failure).
- Insolvency: A financial state of bankruptcy, such as the failure of a business or bank.
Having stated the above terms, one can decipher that process is a necessary tool for success. When a process is lacking, failure is inevitable.
I recently listened to a sermon by a Nigerian Pastor. According to the pastor, there’s something that looks like failure, but in a real sense, it is not failure; it is process. Sometimes in life, when we fail in business, examinations, careers, marriage, or even when our health fails us, the reason why they all happen is that we have failed to do the needful, or we need to go through a process.
Let me explain. Let’s say one has a business; if one has not taken the time to learn the trade very well, the person might fail for not learning a necessary skill required for the business, acquiring formal or informal education, or having a form of apprenticeship from a mentor, which might be all that’s necessary for the entrepreneur to succeed. This is what is called a process.
Also, a student will need to read, research, and do assignments to pass an examination. An employee will have to learn a job as an entry-level employee and work his way through to become the Chief Executive Officer. All this involves a process.
Marriage is not an exception. There’s no successful marriage without a form of mentoring or training. A man/woman must undergo a process of marriage counseling to learn about how to win in marriage. In this training, they will learn about communication in marriage, money in marriage, sex in marriage, money in marriage, and personalities in marriage
I strongly believe that there’s time for everything. There is an appointed time for everything. When something is not in its season, don’t expect to deliver. When one puts pressure, it’s bound to fail.
I can vividly remember what my most revered mentor, Dr. Yomi Garnett, counseled me on the importance of patience. A little background about the case: at that time, I had no job. I was working as a security officer. I tried to use my connections to secure a decent job, but it was very challenging. I reached out to Dr. Yomi, whom I call the sage because of his scintillating and rational wisdom. After ranting to him about my litany of problems, he said to me, “Henry, if you like, meet President Obama, Trump, etc.; if God is not ready to give you a job, you won’t get a job”. He went further to say, you can’t rush God. When the time is ready, God will align everything for you.
According to my mentors, there’s something God and the universe want me to learn. I must go through some process of refining for the task ahead. These refining processes might be preparing for the greater task by learning what needs to be learned, or it could be a case of God teaching me wisdom or something of value that will be useful to me in the near future which I may not be able to see now.
When I look back in retrospect, I can authoritatively say my mentor was right.
Sometimes in life, we prepare for the opportunities, while sometimes, we don’t prepare. We just learn on the job. But I honestly think it’s good to prepare before one embarks on any journey. That preparation is called a process.
To understand how the process works, do you know that if you plant corn in the season that is not the rainy season, you will believe it’s a bad seed, but no, that’s not the case because you planted the corn in the wrong season. Even the bible says there’s a time for everything.
Also, someone might finish university and become frustrated because he doesn’t have a job. What the person might not know is that their season is yet to manifest. It could also be that the student might need refinement, which comes with the process.
It’s instructive to note that when your season comes, nothing can stop it; there will be alignment, and the universe will work for you. What you did many years ago that failed to attract attention will begin to attract attention and draw you in.
Today, I pray, may you command attention in your season, not after your season.
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the founder of Gloemi. He’s a Transformative Human Capacity and Mindset coach. He is also a public speaker, youth advocate, creative writer and author of Design Your Destiny- Actualizing Your Birthright to Success, Unleash Your Destiny and The Six Pillars of Success . He can be reached via info@gloemi.com






