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Food for Living: The Blessing of Parents

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By Henry Ukazu

Dear Destiny Friends,

Every living being craves blessings. An apprentice craves the blessings of his/her master or coach to succeed, the same way a mentee craves the blessings of his mentor. Every living being who truly wants to succeed must earnestly crave the blessings of their parents, especially if they are alive.

You may be wondering what parental blessings are? Parental blessings refer to positive forces that follow you and bring you good luck due to the positive words spoken over your life by those with parental authority over you. This can either come from your biological parents or those who have a form of “divine or positional authority” over you. It must not necessarily be your biological parents though biological parents have a more influential role to play, but we have seen some bad parents, but then that’s not a yardstick to castigate or neglect them. They might be bad but, they see still have some divine powers and authority. This is because we came to the world through their cells, genes, and blood which is the foundation of existence. That’s why most people say, blood is thicker than blood.

In this article, I will share personal thought-provoking insights to inform and enlighten us about the effects of parental blessings. As a transformational human capacity coach with a focus on helping humanity in all spheres of life to not only maximize their potentials but also to unleash their potentials, I have come to realize that true success is internal and not external. During my engagements with people (High school and college students, graduates, entrepreneurs and career professionals), I find it why some people succeed much faster with relative ease while some people literally struggle to succeed.

As a mindset coach, I always focus most of my training on self-discovery. This is because, before you can succeed in anything in life, you must not only understand the basics, you must love it, but more especially, you must have the corresponding blessings that come with the opportunity. These blessings can come in various forms, they can either come from your mentors, parents, founders, or even the creator, but I will focus my point on parental blessings.

You may be wondering why I’m focusing and emphasizing parental blessings. Well, the reason is simple, parental blessings are the foundational blessings we need to survive in whatever we do. This is because at creation, God used our biological parents to bring us into the world, and as such, God gave them all we need to succeed in life. That is why when your mother gave birth to you, you will either look like your father, mother, or even a relative, but more importantly, you’ll have features of either your father or mother in you. That’s why it is been said, a lion can’t give birth to a snake. As always, like begets like.

That said, if the creator didn’t want your parents to give birth to you, they’ll find another person to bring you into the world. Therefore, God deposited all the nutrients and all you need to succeed in life. Your parents are the first people you met in your life apart from the doctors, nurses, and medical team that played a crucial role in the labour room. Your parents are your first friends, they nurtured, trained, and equipped you with all you need to stand as a human being before you became independent.

I can understand the fact that some parents may not be physically present during the birth and training of the child, I can also understand some parents abandoned their child/children, and are not be physically present in their life. There are a thousand and one reasons out there, but the point I’m trying to emphasize is that, regardless of the odd, your parents have a role to play in your life’s success. Yes, it can be painful if you have odd stories and memories. But let me ask, if you are told the reason you have not been able to succeed in life or why life is not adding up for you is because your parents have not blessed you, and you are told, you have to seek for your parents’ blessings, will you seek for your parents’ blessings or will you disregard it? If your thinking is like mine, you will go and search for them wherever they are because they have the key to your success.

This might sound a little bit strange to you, but trust me, there are spiritual blessings that come with parental blessings, but quite unfortunately, many people don’t know about it. It may interest you to know that, in the Holy Bible, the only commandment with a promise is the fifth commandment which says, “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”

What does this instruction portend? It shows, your “parents” are the only people God has given your blessing. If you like meet world leaders, preachers, billionaires, celebrities, etc., for opportunities, trust me, the blessings or favours will be temporary no matter how long you may think it lasted or may last. Even if it lasts a long period of time, there’s a level of happiness, fulfillment and goodwill you are supposed to get which you may not get because you are not working on purpose. But if your biological parents should pray for you and bless you from their heart, trust me you will attract uncommon favours, goodwill and peace of mind that surpasses all joy. This is why most times reasonable people go all out for parental blessings.

Just like every house has a foundation that holds it together, every success has a foundation upon which it is built. That’s why it is important for children and adults to seek their blessings before they engage in any worthwhile project like the choice of a life partner, marriage, traveling, business, or professional career. I remember giving my late parents my first paycheck in the USA to bless it. I did that because I know the importance of parental blessings.

Here is a personal story: A couple of years ago, I shared on my Instagram and social media pages how I resigned from my job to see my late grandmother and returned back to New York without a job. But at the end of the day, I received the blessings which made me to be profiled and interviewed by New York Times and News12 because of my book. The interesting part of this story is that my late grandmother played a huge role due to the blessings she showered on me and my book.

Ordinarily, I doubt if my hard work and academic work can earn me those opportunities. I must be honest with myself that if at all I will get the opportunity, I doubt if the ovation will be as loud as it is currently trending. It may interest you to know that I didn’t even lobby or seek this publicity, they came naturally. I was even surprised to see the story was shared on YouTube. As you can see these are some of the goodwill I have received in recent times, and I know more are on the way.

Just so you know, your parents are like your earthly “God”. So just like you obey your boss at work to ensure you are in their good book, you must ensure that you seek for your parent’s blessing. When you provoke your parent to the extent they decide to curse you, trust me, it has a tendency of limiting your growth and success in life. But I have good news for you. According to Proverbs 26:2, “Curses cannot hurt you unless you deserve them”. So, even if your parents or anyone should curse you, if you didn’t cause whatever situation that prompted the cause, trust me, it won’t have any effect.

The blessings of parents are priceless. Some of the associated blessings that come with parental blessings include; you will receive divine favor, divine protection, you will receive supernatural blessings and strength, you will move at the speed of light, you’ll attract favors, uncommon goodwill, you won’t struggle to succeed compared to your contemporaries, you will prevail against your foes or negative force, and you will be fruitful.

But remember they all come with a condition, you must honuor your parents, and honoring your parents entails respecting them, providing for them in form of gifts, monetary support no matter how little, and most importantly showing them love by calling to check up on them.

Are you struggling in life? Do you need peace of mind, fulfillment, opportunities, favour etc? If yes, please seek your parents’ blessings why doing the needful. If you genuinely try this principle of seeking parental blessings and it doesn’t work, then only God, in flesh and blood, can help you.

Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He’s a Human Capacity & mindset coach. He’s also a  public speaker. He works with the New York City Department of Correction as the Legal Coordinator. He’s the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny – Actualizing Your Birthright To Success and President of gloemi.com. He can be reached via info@gloemi.com

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The Renewed Hope: A New Dawn for Green White Green

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By Tolulope A. Adegoke

“They came searching for oil and found a nation; they stayed for minerals and discovered a people; they will remain for the harvest and inherit a future. Nigeria’s belly was never empty—it was waiting for the world to learn how to read its abundance. The renewed hope is not that Nigeria will rise, but that the world will finally recognise what has always been true: the Green White Green carries within its fold the seed of every nation’s tomorrow.”

Introduction: Reading the Abundance

For decades, the global narrative surrounding Nigeria has been stubbornly one-dimensional—a tale of paradox, of potential squandered, of a giant perpetually clearing its throat but never quite speaking. Yet, a dispassionate examination of empirical data, recent policy shifts, and geological realities reveals a different story. The Green White Green is not merely a flag of a nation struggling to find its footing; it is the standard of a sleeping giant now stirring with purpose. Nigeria’s metaphoric belly is not empty; it is filled to bursting with a diversity of resources—human, mineral, agricultural, and energy—that the world increasingly requires for its own survival. The renewed hope is not a political slogan; it is a quantifiable reality waiting to be harnessed. And for the early investor—whether institutional or individual, whether based in Lagos or London, Dubai or Toronto—this reality represents a narrowing window of opportunity that rewards those who move with discernment rather than those who wait for consensus.

The Hydrocarbon Bedrock and the Gas Dividend

While the world clamours for energy transition, the uncomfortable truth is that global energy security remains anchored in hydrocarbons. Nigeria’s position here is not merely significant; it is strategic. As of January 2026, the Nigerian Upstream Petroleum Regulatory Commission confirmed the nation’s total oil and condensate reserves at 37.01 billion barrels, alongside a staggering 215.19 trillion standard cubic feet of gas. To put this in perspective, the reserves life index stands at 59 years for oil and 85 years for gas, ensuring that Nigeria will remain a pivotal supplier to global markets for generations.

However, the story is no longer just about crude. The renewed hope is driven by a fundamental shift in how Nigeria manages these resources. The Petroleum Industry Act has moved the country from a stagnant regulatory environment to one that is attracting serious capital. Crude production has rebounded to approximately 1.6 to 1.7 million barrels per day, propelled by increased drilling activity and government-led initiatives to restore output.

What This Holds for Early Investors

The early investor in Nigeria’s upstream sector is not merely buying into a resource play; they are buying into a regulatory reset that has fundamentally altered the risk calculus. In August 2026, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu approved a landmark Deep Offshore Investment Framework designed to unlock up to US$50 billion in new investment by replacing project-by-project negotiations with a transparent, rules-based system. The framework begins with the approximately US$10 billion Bonga South West project and applies across multiple categories of qualifying developments, providing the certainty that globally mobile capital demands. For early movers, this represents an opportunity to enter at the ground floor of a revived deep-water province before competition intensifies.

Furthermore, the Nigerian Upstream Petroleum Regulatory Commission has announced the 2026 Licensing Round, offering 40 oil and gas blocks across land, shallow water, and deep-water terrains. The Commission’s chief executive has explicitly invited qualified Nigerian and international investors to “come and compete,” with full disclosure of evaluation methodology and beneficial ownership requirements—a signal that transparency is being institutionalised rather than merely promised. The immediate production upside is equally quantifiable: the Commission has identified more than 788,000 barrels per day of shut-in production across 63 operators, alongside offshore projects valued at an estimated $30 billion to $50 billion awaiting final investment decision . For the early investor with technical competence and financial capacity, these are not speculative figures; they are a pipeline of bankable opportunities.

The gas sub-sector offers perhaps the most compelling entry point for investors with a longer horizon. Nigeria sits on 215 trillion cubic feet of gas, yet daily production is barely 7 billion cubic feet . The government has completed major infrastructure projects to unlock gas supply and is advancing the Nigeria-Morocco Atlantic Gas Pipeline and Trans-Sahara Gas Pipeline, positioning Nigeria not merely as a domestic supplier but as a strategic corridor for European and regional demand. Early investors in gas processing, pipeline infrastructure, and liquefaction capacity are effectively securing a stake in the architecture of twenty-first-century African energy security.

The Silent Revolution in Solid Minerals

Perhaps the most compelling evidence of Nigeria’s renewed hope lies beneath the soil, in a sector long overshadowed by oil. In mid-2026, the federal government announced the discovery of a world-class polymetallic mineral province in Kaduna State, verified by the Nigerian Geological Survey Agency. This is not a minor find. It contains exceptionally high-grade deposits of platinum group metals, gold, nickel, copper, lithium, and rare earth elements—the very raw materials that power the global transition to electric vehicles, renewable energy infrastructure, and advanced electronics.

Simultaneously, an estimated 3.3 million metric tonnes of lithium reserves were unveiled at a site near Abuja, with the broader project hosting an estimated 94.8 million tonnes of mineral resources including lithium-bearing ore. This is the heartbeat of the twenty-first-century economy. While the world scrambles to secure supply chains for critical minerals, Nigeria has quietly positioned itself as an emerging destination. Crucially, the government has abandoned the old model of exporting raw ore. New licensing requirements mandate local processing and beneficiation, forcing investment into domestic value chains.

What This Holds for Early Investors

The lithium value chain presents a particularly instructive case study for early investors. Nigeria’s known lithium occurrences are concentrated in the North-Central and South-West geopolitical zones, with significant deposits in Nasarawa, Ekiti, Kwara, Kogi, Kaduna, Niger, and Oyo states. The principal lithium-bearing minerals identified include spodumene, lepidolite, petalite, and amblygonite—all recognised globally as important commercial sources of battery-grade lithium. The International Energy Agency projects that demand for lithium could grow by more than 40 times by 2040 under ambitious clean-energy scenarios, placing countries with commercially viable deposits in a strategically advantageous position.

For the early investor, the calculus is straightforward. Those who enter at the exploration and processing stage—rather than waiting for the sector to mature—can secure assets at valuations that do not yet reflect the full magnitude of global demand. The evidence of this opportunity is already materialising. Chinese investors have funded the bulk of Nigeria’s processing infrastructure, with a $600 million lithium processing plant near the Kaduna-Niger border planned to open and a $200 million lithium refinery on the outskirts of Abuja nearly completed, backed by firms including Jiuling Lithium Mining Company and Canmax Technologies. The government expects two additional processing plants in Nasarawa State. These are not pilot projects; they are the foundation of an industrial ecosystem.

The institutional architecture supporting these investments has also matured. The Electronic Mining Cadastral System (EMC+) has streamlined licensing into a fully digitised application process, while the newly launched Nigeria Minerals Decision Support System (NMDSS) provides critical hydrological, geological, and geographical data to assist investors in making informed decisions. The Minister of Solid Minerals Development, Dele Alake, has explicitly charged global mining giants—naming Glencore, Rio Tinto, and Rainbow Mines among others—to recognise Nigeria’s vast mineral resources and collaborate in their development. For early investors, the combination of de-risked licensing, transparent data, and government advocacy represents a rare alignment of conditions.

The Agricultural Engine and the Demographic Dividend

The world’s survival hinges not just on minerals, but on food and human capital. Here too, Nigeria’s belly is full. Agriculture contributes approximately 26 percent to Nigeria’s Gross Domestic Product and provides employment for more than 70 percent of the population across the agricultural value chain. The government has projected that agriculture could account for up to 30 percent of the nation’s one-trillion-dollar economy ambition, translating to approximately $300 billion.

What This Holds for Early Investors

The agricultural opportunity for early investors is anchored in a structural reality: Nigeria possesses 79 million hectares of arable land, of which only about 40 percent is currently cultivated. The productivity gap is equally pronounced. Yields for several Nigerian crops average between 1.3 and 1.5 tonnes per hectare, compared with approximately 11 tonnes per hectare recorded in Egypt under irrigation. Nigeria remains the world’s largest producer of cassava, with annual output estimated at 63 million metric tonnes, yet average yields of six to seven tonnes per hectare remain far below the nation’s capacity.

For the early investor, these gaps are not liabilities; they are arbitrage opportunities. The Federal Government has unveiled a $78.5 billion investment portfolio** featuring 65 projects across key sectors, including agriculture and agro-processing, which alone requires **$9.8 billion. The incentives are explicit: 100 percent foreign ownership, full capital repatriation, and tax credits designed to attract global investors. These are not aspirational policy statements; they are codified instruments available to those who move early.

The momentum is already visible on the ground. At COP31 in November 2026, Nigeria signed a $3 million agreement for a climate-smart greenhouse project in Kano State, deploying approximately 1,000 climate-adapted greenhouses for tomato production under the Special Agro-Industrial Processing Zones programme. The Bank of Agriculture will provide $1.5 million in structured financing for participating farmers, while Turkish firm Direkci Group will contribute another $1.5 million in private-sector financing and technology. The partners have agreed to a joint performance review after nine months, with a possible commercial expansion valued at a minimum of $30 million. For early investors in agro-processing, greenhouse technology, and structured agricultural finance, this is a template that can be replicated across multiple value chains and geographies.

The demographic dimension amplifies the agricultural opportunity. With an estimated population of 230 million—projected to reach between 450 and 500 million by 2050—Nigeria possesses the largest youth demographic on the African continent, with more than half of its people aged under 30 . Each year, 3.5 million young Nigerians enter the labour market, one of the largest waves of youth entering the workforce anywhere in the world. For early investors in labour-intensive sectors—agro-processing, manufacturing, digital services—this represents a structural cost advantage that will only deepen as global labour markets tighten.

A Strategic Partner for Global Stability

The empirical evidence converges on a single conclusion: Nigeria is not asking for charity; it is offering partnership. The financing gaps are real. Nigeria’s Third Nationally Determined Contribution estimates that $337 billion will be required between 2026 and 2035 to deliver its climate and sustainability commitments. The nation’s tax-to-GDP ratio of approximately 15.5 percent remains below regional benchmarks, limiting the government’s capacity to fund priority sectors and respond to shocks.

What This Holds for Early Investors

But these figures represent opportunity, not desperation—and the macro environment is stabilising in ways that directly benefit early entrants. By early 2026, the divergence between the official Nigerian Foreign Exchange Market and the parallel market rate narrowed to less than 2 percent on average. Foreign exchange reserves climbed to a 13-year high of $50.45 billion in February 2026, providing roughly 9.7 months of import cover. This liquidity surge was supported by the removal of FX restrictions on 44 items and a resurgence in foreign portfolio inflows—a signal that the currency risk that once deterred investors is being actively managed.

The capital markets are also opening. The Securities and Exchange Commission has announced plans to introduce an African depositary-receipt framework to attract foreign companies and investors, as part of a strategy to triple the market’s size to 750 trillion naira ($562 billion) by 2036** . The plan targets an increase in annual diaspora investment from **$4 billion to $10 billion** over the next decade, with assets managed by collective investment schemes rising from **$5.6 billion to $56 billion. For early investors in Nigerian equities and fixed income, this represents a structural expansion of the investor base and liquidity pool that will lift valuations across the market.

The proof of concept is already visible. The Dangote Petroleum Refinery is using global depositary receipts to reach investors outside Nigeria through an IPO seeking to raise approximately $2.1 billion, with the offering extended to allow participation from more African markets. For the early investor, this is not merely a single transaction; it is a demonstration that Nigerian assets can be structured to access global capital at scale. Those who establish positions before the depositary-receipt framework is fully operational will be participating in a market that is being deliberately redesigned to accommodate them.

The Window and the Warning

For the early investor, the Nigerian opportunity carries a temporal dimension that cannot be ignored. The conditions that make Nigeria attractive—reformed regulatory frameworks, transparent licensing, currency stabilisation, and a government actively courting foreign capital—are the product of deliberate policy choices made in the past three years. They are not permanent features of the landscape; they are the result of a specific political configuration that has prioritised investment climate over short-term extraction.

The licensing rounds will close. The deep offshore framework will be fully subscribed. The lithium processing capacity will be built out by those who move now. The agricultural corridors will be secured by investors who recognise that food security is the next frontier of global strategic competition. The demographic dividend, too, has a window: the United Nations projects that Nigeria’s working-age population will expand by more than 100 million people within 25 years, but if this surge is not absorbed into productive employment, the same demographic advantage could become a liability.

The early investor, therefore, is not merely seeking returns; they are participating in the construction of a new economic architecture. They are betting not on Nigeria’s resources alone, but on the proposition that a nation of 230 million people, endowed with oil and gas, lithium and gold, arable land and a youthful workforce, and governed by a administration that has staked its legitimacy on attracting capital, represents the most compelling growth story of the coming decade.

Conclusion: The Harvest is Ready

The belly is full. The harvest is ready. The world would do well to take notice—and the early investor would do well to move before the notice becomes consensus. Nigeria’s renewed hope is not a promise deferred; it is a destiny being unveiled, block by block, refinery by refinery, policy by policy. For those who read the abundance correctly, the Green White Green is not merely a flag to be admired from a distance. It is an invitation to participate in the most consequential economic transformation of the twenty-first century.

Note: This write-up draws on official regulatory announcements, government policy documents, and verified industry reporting from 2026. The figures cited are sourced from the Nigerian Upstream Petroleum Regulatory Commission, the Federal Ministry of Solid Minerals Development, the Securities and Exchange Commission, the African Development Bank, the World Economic Forum, and other institutional sources. Early investors are advised to conduct independent due diligence and engage with qualified legal and financial advisers before committing capital.

Dr. Tolulope A. Adegoke, AMBP-UN, is a globally recognized scholar-practitioner and thought leader at the nexus of security, governance, and strategic leadership. His mission is dedicated to advancing ethical governance, strategic human capital development, resilient nation-building, and global peace. He bridges the worlds of academic rigor and practical application, contributing to leadership discourse at the highest levels of policy and practice. He can be reached via: tolulopeadegoke01@gmail.com, globalstageimpacts@gmail.com

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Angry Protesters Storm Abuja Streets, Tear Down Tinubu’s Campaign Banners

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Angry protesters, on Friday, stormed Area 1 in Abuja and tore down posters and banners bearing the image of President Bola Tinubu.

Footage of the incident, which has now gone viral on social media, showed the protesters pulling down the campaign materials, stepping on them and chanting “Tinubu Must Go” as onlookers watched.

According to report, the protesters, mostly youths, moved around the busy Area 1 axis, pulling off posters pasted on walls, shops and poles, before tearing the big banners into pieces.

Some of the protesters were also heard complaining about hardship, hunger and insecurity in the country.

It was not immediately clear what triggered the protest at Area 1, one of the busiest commercial areas in the Federal Capital Territory.

The incident comes at a time when similar videos of youths tearing down Tinubu’s posters and billboards have been circulating from different parts of the country.

It also comes days after the Inspector-General of Police warned against the deliberate destruction, defacement or unlawful removal of political campaign materials, saying such acts are criminal offences punishable by law.

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Armed Thugs Attack NDC Members at Lagos Town Hall Meeting

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Panic broke out on Thursday in Lagos as thugs attacked supporters of the Nigeria Democratic Congress (NDC) during a town hall meeting in the Oregun area of the metropolis.

Reports said the hoodlums, who were armed with cutlasses, cudgels and stones, stormed the venue of the event while the meeting was in  session.

The attackers were said to have invaded the hall, disrupted proceedings and sent participants scampering for safety.

Many of the supporters ran in different directions to escape the attack, while chairs and other items at the venue were scattered in the confusion that followed.

At the time of filing this report, it was not clear if anyone was injured in the attack, or if any arrest had been made by the police.

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